Expectations are the quickest route to unhappiness.

In this episode of I Am Not Your Pastor, we discuss how to use expectations to create better outcomes and dodge the pitfalls that covert expectations create.

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Have you ever been in a funk? I have. This week. And last week.

On this episode, we discuss the 3 types of people in the world and how you can survive the "stuff"

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This week, I had the privilege to speak with Jason Elam from The Messy Spirituality Podcast. If you've gone through or are going through de-construction/re-construction, you're gonna love this episode!

Connect with Jason Here:
Insta: https://www.instagram.com/beingjasonelam/
Web: http://jasonelam.org/category/jason-elam/

You can also find me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/dougstewart919/

Bad news.... The Church is not a safe place to be accepted. Neither is your marriage, your CrossFit gym or your neighborhood. Instead of looking for safety, perhaps there is an alternative option. In this episode, we discuss that.
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Check out of few of the podcast I've been on lately:

Rumors of Grace Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rumors-of-grace-with-bob-hutchins/id1439929794?i=1000448114946

The Messy Spirituality Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-messy-spirituality-podcast/id1459760015?i=1000450772300

Whether you go to therapy or not, I believe this episode will be therapeutic for you.

Ryan and Michael are friends who care deeply about the physiological, relational, and spiritual health of their community.

You can connect with Ryan Denney here:

- https://one-eightycounseling.com/holly-springs-therapist/
- [email protected]
- https://ryanmdenney.com

You can connect with Michael Garner here:

- www.FamilyToday.net
- https://www.facebook.com/FamilyTodayNC/
- https://one-eightycounseling.com


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https://www.instagram.com/dougstewart919/
Facebook.com/groups/iamnotyourpastor
twitter.com/dougstewart919

In this episode, I had to privilege to speak with Bob Hutchins. As you will discover, Bob is an incredible guy and through this off the top conversation offers a refreshing and life-giving perspective of God, eternity, and even hell. Enjoy!

Connect with Bob:
https://www.instagram.com/bwhutchins/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rumors-of-grace-with-bob-hutchins/id1439929794?mt=2

https://rumorsofgrace.com/

Your perspective of a thing impacts your posture toward it.

If we see ourselves as evil and depraved, we will never escape from that story. If we see ourselves as loved and accepted, we can reach for our original purpose.

This week on the podcast, I discuss the perspective of original goodness vs. original sin and why our perspective is so important.

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I was honored to have my pastor, Bill Rose from Oasis Church in Holly Springs NC on the pod!

In this Off The Top Conversation, we discussed:

Being a pastor, spanking kids, dieting, human connection, yelling at people, divisive issues, forcing your beliefs on people, certainty, asking questions, making disciples, and much more.

Connect with Bill HERE:
https://www.facebook.com/billrose83
https://www.instagram.com/billrose83/

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https://www.instagram.com/dougstewart919/
Facebook.com/groups/iamnotyourpastor

If you want to shame someone, there are only 4 steps.


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Last week a video of a man's rant in a bagel store in Long Island went viral. So my question is, what should we do with people like this?

Here's the Inside Edition coverage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lzCpYB2M7T4

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