Henry and Randi discuss the topic of age differences in relationships. They share their personal experiences and address the reactions they receive from others. They also talk about the benefits of age differences and how it has enhanced their lives. The conversation then transitions to the importance of choosing each other every day and respecting each other's tastes and alone time. Overall, the conversation highlights the value of embracing differences and navigating life's challenges together.

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This conversation explores the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a relationship after having children. Henry & Randi discuss the importance of prioritizing people over things and finding ways to be intimate despite interruptions from children. They share personal experiences and strategies for creating dedicated time for each other, such as planning date nights or getting away for a weekend. The conversation emphasizes the need for communication, vulnerability, and understanding in your relationship. Overall, the hosts highlight the importance of finding ways to reconnect and maintain a strong bond as a couple. Randi & Henry emphasize the challenges of finding time for intimacy and offer suggestions for scheduling sex. They also encourage couples to spice things up and explore new experiences together. 

This conversation explores the challenges of divorced parenting and provides insights on how to navigate them. Henry & Randi discuss the importance of maintaining routine and stability for children, being honest with them while avoiding derogatory comments about the other parent, and finding a balance between honesty and age-appropriate discussions. They also highlight the difficulties of communication between divorced parents and the impact of uncertainty on children.

Randi & Henry talk about the importance of a detailed parenting plan, the need for flexibility and reasonableness, the role of in-laws, protecting children from hurtful comments, being positive, and making promises. Henry closes us out with a joke - you want to hear it! Ha.

Henry and Randi talk about their experiences with Maggie and the NICU at Vanderbilt Hospital. Randi shares about how priorities, and other things she thought was important, change in light of the experience with the NICU. Henry explains how his experiences in mountaineering prepared him for dealing with the challenge of having a child in the NICU, focusing on the next thing that is in front of you and taking the next step.

**This is an emotional episode that deals with the heavy topic of infant mortality. Just a warning.

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Henry & Randi look at the importance of setting a work/life balance. They talk about both having careers where work could easily follow you home and how they combat this to make sure time with each other and their kids isn't impacted negatively. Looking at their family pizza and movie night ritual, they talk about making sure to commit to disconnecting from work, and the rest of the outside pressures we face, and focusing in on healthy activities with family.

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Randi kicks off the episode talking about her Love Languages and then they jump into the discussion on what individuals need in a relationship. Henry asks the question: "What does your partner need from you?" This episode is an encouragement to get to know your partner and understand what they like! They also encourage us to KEEP getting to know our partners as they grow and change. Henry talks about some current recipes he is using to feed Randi - ha!

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Henry and Randi sit down and tell a little about their stories and share a bit about what they hope this podcast will be. They talk about their age difference, what they do professionally and how divorce can really derail your life and show you who your true friends are! They also talk about Maggie and her birth story, and then Henry shares their family motto that they use as they navigate life: F*ck’em and Feed’em Fish Heads. (this sounds like it will be a shirt...).

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Randi and Henry Fincher are kicking off their podcast "I do, I did, I'm done!" What happens when a Wedding Planner and Divorce Attorney team up in life and on a Podcast? Real and Raw conversations about life and how to navigate it all.

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