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I Don't Hang Around Victims Anymore: It's a Disease
For years, I believed I could grow without altering my surroundings. This mindset kept me stuck between who I was and who I aspired to be. In this episode, I discuss why you're not evolving, how friendships rooted in victimhood can undermine your progress, and my journey to stop pleasing people who drained me.
If you're transitioning, starting a business, or outgrowing your past and wondering why growth feels lonely, this episode is for you.
Because true alignment begins with your environment, and the right people will energize, not drain you.
00:00:00: Intro — the victim archetype
00:02:20: I used to be a victim, too
00:03:47: The first identity shift
00:05:30: The second shift: adjusting my circle
00:07:41: Radical responsibility + compartmentalizing friendships
00:10:06: Why most friendships start to feel misaligned
00:12:22: What friendship alignment feels like
00:14:05: The cost of friendships with victim villains
00:02:20: I used to be a victim, too
00:03:47: The first identity shift
00:05:30: The second shift: adjusting my circle
00:07:41: Radical responsibility + compartmentalizing friendships
00:10:06: Why most friendships start to feel misaligned
00:12:22: What friendship alignment feels like
00:14:05: The cost of friendships with victim villains
#ambitiouswomen #evolving #victimhood #friendshipalignment #personalgrowth #people-pleasing #identityshift
See show notes: https://inlet.fm/denee/episodes/687e80f3f74424e7f16f0f85
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By Pretty Philosophical with Denée SeatonFor years, I believed I could grow without altering my surroundings. This mindset kept me stuck between who I was and who I aspired to be. In this episode, I discuss why you're not evolving, how friendships rooted in victimhood can undermine your progress, and my journey to stop pleasing people who drained me.
If you're transitioning, starting a business, or outgrowing your past and wondering why growth feels lonely, this episode is for you.
Because true alignment begins with your environment, and the right people will energize, not drain you.
00:00:00: Intro — the victim archetype
00:02:20: I used to be a victim, too
00:03:47: The first identity shift
00:05:30: The second shift: adjusting my circle
00:07:41: Radical responsibility + compartmentalizing friendships
00:10:06: Why most friendships start to feel misaligned
00:12:22: What friendship alignment feels like
00:14:05: The cost of friendships with victim villains
00:02:20: I used to be a victim, too
00:03:47: The first identity shift
00:05:30: The second shift: adjusting my circle
00:07:41: Radical responsibility + compartmentalizing friendships
00:10:06: Why most friendships start to feel misaligned
00:12:22: What friendship alignment feels like
00:14:05: The cost of friendships with victim villains
#ambitiouswomen #evolving #victimhood #friendshipalignment #personalgrowth #people-pleasing #identityshift
See show notes: https://inlet.fm/denee/episodes/687e80f3f74424e7f16f0f85
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