Coach Jackie welcomes licensed mental health therapist, wellness coach, bestselling co-author, and Rise, Reclaim, and Renew podcast host Joanie Elizabeth, whom she met through the Brave (formerly Fave Lifestyles) organization. Jackie explains the “I Got It Girl” mindset—strength born from survival, fear, and control—and her own shift toward surrender, support, and thriving.

Joanie shares childhood trauma, abandonment, and growing up feeling unseen, which shaped beliefs about not mattering and having to figure everything out alone, later contributing to abusive relationships. She describes a major turning point recognizing and leaving a narcissistic marriage, developing boundaries, learning to receive support, and inviting safe people into her life.

They discuss healing the subconscious, releasing anger and “backpacks,” avoiding self-abandonment, empowering rather than enabling, and Joanie’s takeaway: you hold the pen and are the CEO of your mind and life.

00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro

00:53 Meet Joanie Elizabeth

02:08 What Is the I Got It Girl

05:02 Joanie Childhood Survival Story

07:55 Beliefs and Family Dynamics

11:32 Jackie Reflects on Healing

13:27 Forgiveness and Backpack Release

15:38 PAAR Framework and Anger

18:53 Letting People In Again

19:52 Recovering I Got It Girl

21:01 Healing and Boundaries

22:08 Love Bombing Warning Signs

22:48 Naming Narcissistic Abuse

25:27 Grief and Getting Free

27:01 Letting Safe People In

28:02 Manifestation and Identity

30:48 Receive and Self Care

32:01 Stop Enabling Loved Ones

33:24 Freedom Comes Within

36:54 Find Joanie and Final Takeaway

You can find Joanie Elizabeth, her coaching and podcast on her website https://www.wellnesswithjoanie.com/ And on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/1Cq1HQCBDZ/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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Coach Jackie welcomes entrepreneur and speaker coach Caterina Rando, who shares her mission to help women thrive economically through entrepreneurship by selling authentically, using speaking to grow influence, and hosting retreats and masterminds.

Jackie explains the “I Got It Girl” mindset rooted in childhood independence and how control and fear can block love and receiving. Caterina describes rebuilding after her husband depleted her accounts and created debt, learning to trust herself, choose possibility-focused action, and prioritize financial empowerment because financial distress limits women’s choices.

They discuss boundaries, avoiding rescuing others financially, curating aligned client communities, and making non-salesy offers by asking permission. Caterina shares resources at caterinarando.com/links, her podcast Expand Your Fempire, free monthly Zoom workshops, and a monthly Polka Dot Powerhouse dots speaker group connect.

00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro

00:33 Caterina Mission and Methods

01:54 Retreats Style and Travel

03:36 What Is I Got It Girl

06:09 Caterina Trust After Divorce

12:21 Choosing Positivity and Action

15:57 Trusting Others and Receiving

17:38 Rescuing Men and Boundaries

19:40 Breaking the Fixer Pattern

21:46 Money Confidence and Boundaries

23:32 Pandemic Wake Up Call

25:30 Receiving and Making Offers

26:53 Permission Based Selling

28:35 Curating Your Community

29:34 Letting Go of Misaligned Clients

33:06 Where to Find Caterina

35:22 Final Takeaway and Wrap Up

You can find Caterina Rando at the following links:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/caterinarando

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CaterinaRandoTWIBC

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caterina_rando

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaterinaRando

Website: https://caterinarando.com/

Free Business Resources: https://caterinarando.com/links/

Upcoming Events: https://caterinarando.com/events/

You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links

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On this episode Coach Jackie welcomes Lena Khais, an intentional manifestation coach with a background in industrial-organizational psychology and 25 years in corporate healthcare/insurance, who helps business owners break through revenue plateaus by combining energy work with business psychology and the art of receiving.

Lena shares moving to the U.S. in 1994 at 17, her corporate hustle mindset, and an “I got it” turning point when her six-year-old told her at the airport, “I’m gonna miss you,” prompting gradual change. She outlines three key shifts: empower your team instead of doing it all, find your “who” when you don’t know “how,” and focus on what you want rather than what’s broken. She explains bridging thoughts over toxic positivity and describes starting her business through “playing pretend” on Fridays, which eventually led to job elimination with severance and a full transition.

00:00 Meet Lena the Modern Fairy

00:30 Business Plateaus and Money Flow

02:15 Prom Fight to America

05:00 What I Got It Girl Means

07:42 Lena’s Hustle and Wake Up Call

12:27 Micro Shifts to Big Change

13:57 Three Shifts to Let Go

18:12 Stop Feeding Problems

20:34 Stop Fixing Problems

21:11 Double Down on Wins

21:42 Awareness to Action

23:01 Move Toward Desire

24:50 Thoughts Create Reality

25:30 Rewire Your Brain

26:17 Bridging Thoughts

27:49 Micro Shifts to Start

30:12 Practice Before You Quit

34:00 From Side Hustle to Business

34:43 Light vs Heavy Energy

35:29 Stay Connected Online

37:11 Live by Design

38:55 Final Thanks and Share

You can find Lena Khais at the following places:

website: www.atlas-paradigm.com

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lenakhais

For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links

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Coach Jackie introduces a new weekly “Freedom 15” segment (5–15 minutes) focused on the freedom to be you and releasing “I got it girl” survival mechanisms to move from surviving to thriving.

She explains that many survival patterns form in early childhood and shares her own story of becoming fiercely independent after her mother died when she was five, learning to care for herself and working extensively to pay for college.

Jackie distinguishes head desires from heart desires and says you can’t be magnetic to true desires while operating from fear, worry, and survival identity (like constant problem-solving).

She describes how 2024 adversity—caring for her dad with dementia and advocating for her stepmom in the hospital—forced her to surrender, reduce work, close her membership, and allow her husband’s support, deepening their relationship. She invites listeners to identify their default patterns and shift to trust, receiving, and “we got it.”

To check out the Destiny Makers Membership she spoke about in this episode click this link: https://destinymakers.net/dmm2025

00:00 Freedom 15 Intro

01:09 Survival Mechanisms Explained

02:51 Desires Head vs Heart

03:44 I Got It Girl Pattern

06:08 From Fear to Thriving

06:48 2024 Adversity Lesson

08:36 Letting Others Support You

09:54 Find Your Default Pattern

11:11 We Got It Girl Shift

11:58 Wrap Up and Offers

You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links This includes links to connect, her small group programs, free intentional goal setting, retreats, one on one coaching and so much more!

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On this episode Coach Jackie welcomes Andre Paradis as her first male guest, a Los Angeles–based relationship coach, NLP practitioner, and communication educator. Andre explains that healthy relationships require releasing childhood trauma and understanding how men and women process, speak, and listen differently, since miscommunication can escalate hurt and distance.

Jackie shares her “I Got It Girl” story rooted in control, fear, and survival after her mother died when she was five, and how midlife helped her recognize the impact and learn to let go and receive support from her husband.

Andre describes “coming online” around age five, how early meanings shape lifelong relationship patterns, and how he moved from a painful childhood to feeling alive through dance, eventually working with major artists. He outlines how unresolved safety wounds can push women into masculine survival energy, affecting attraction and intimacy, and offers resources through Project Equinox, including a workbook and a call to identify and release core imprints, encouraging listeners to think for themselves about love, marriage, and family.

00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro

01:02 Andre’s Coaching Mission

01:23 Why Couples Miscommunicate

03:44 The I Got It Girl Story

04:58 Childhood Programming at Five

07:25 Midlife Wake Up Moment

09:45 Andre’s Origin Wound

11:23 Dance Saved My Life

14:49 From Dancer to Destiny

18:08 Gifts From Adversity

20:52 Masculine Feminine Dynamics

28:55 I Got It Girl Traits Today

29:58 Why You Attract Boys

31:20 Masculine Men Need Feminine

31:53 Radical Responsibility Shift

33:04 Letting Go Feels Unsafe

38:29 Keep Success Keep Softness

39:25 Recalibrating Feminine Energy

41:17 Proof And Invitation

41:42 Gifts And How To Reach

47:16 Action Takers Break The Loop

50:00 Final Nuggets Think Yourself

53:22 Wrap Up And Share

For all things Andrea Paradis you can go here to his website: http://www.projectequinox.net

For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links

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Coach Jackie shares the origin of her “I Got a Girl” concept, growing up fiercely independent after early loss and learning to survive through control, while realizing that this mindset can block love, connection, and true fulfillment.

She explains how many people stay stuck for decades in jobs, relationships, or locations that no longer fit, feeling resentment, frustration, and unfulfillment, and how surrendering control can shift life from surviving to thriving.

Jackie introduces how her Freedom Roadmap that she takes clients through was built from seven years of coaching and includes a vision plan, belief plan, mindset plan, financial plan, and support plan tailored to each person. She encourages taking small, stackable steps and emphasizes that action creates clarity and momentum.

Jackie mentions the Destiny Makers Membership that includes weekly zoom calls to support you in your journey to freedom and how to get a month free using coupon code DMM1FREE https://destinymakers.net/dmm2025

00:00 Welcome Back Podcast

00:38 The I Got A Girl

01:41 Control To Connection

02:22 Stuck And Unfulfilled

03:46 Introducing Freedom Roadmap

04:24 Vision Belief Mindset

05:34 Money Fear And Change

06:51 Custom Paths Examples

08:09 Support Plan And Steps

09:30 From Surviving To Thriving

10:29 Take Action And Connect

11:35 Closing And Next Episode

You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links This includes links to connect, her small group programs, free intentional goal setting and so much more!

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Nervous System Regulation, Control & Safety: Somatic Coach Super Kate Slepicka on Becoming More by Doing Less

In this episode Coach Jackie and somatic coach Super Kate (SK) to the podcast, sharing how they both launched podcasts recently so check out Super Kate’s below. Super Kate explains her work helping people build body awareness, regulate a dysregulated nervous system, and feel safe so they can make better decisions, reconnect with creativity, focus, and enjoy life. Jackie relates her own history of disconnection from her body, over-busyness, and learning to feel emotions later in life. Super Kate recounts taking an unplanned holiday pause from constant networking and productivity, separating worth from output, sitting with uncertainty, and using breath and sensation to settle. They discuss privilege, finding small moments to reset, flexibility over control, and end with Super Kate’s key message: “There’s nothing wrong with you.”

00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro

01:09 Meet Super Kate

02:07 Somatic Coaching Explained

04:47 Jackie on Safety and Feelings

06:23 What I Gotta Go Means

07:42 Letting Go of Control

09:01 Snowy Pause Breakthrough

13:46 Be More Do Less

16:48 Privilege and Practical Steps

19:47 Finding Time and Support

21:30 Stuck in the Jar Analogy

22:53 Escaping What If Spirals

24:43 Reclaiming The Present

26:15 Control Versus Safety

27:21 Flexibility With Thoughts

31:01 Control Identity And Childhood

32:46 Letting Love In

34:47 No One Has It Figured Out

36:10 Stay Connected With Kate

37:30 Nothing Wrong With You

40:20 Closing And Share The Episode

You can find all things Super Kate here: https://linktr.ee/the_superkate

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In this episode Coach Jackie interviews her friend and peer, Monica Walls the owner and creator of Keca’s Usna on letting go, receiving support and building her own lipstick brand. Monica, an HR executive turned entrepreneur, met Jackie through Polka Dot Powerhouse, to discuss the launching of Monica’s lipstick company Keca’s Usna (named from her teenage nickname and the Croatian word for “lip”) and the personal growth behind building it. They explore the “I Got It Girl” mindset—fierce independence rooted in control, fear, and survival—and how it can keep people at a distance, limit receiving help, and affect relationships, especially in male-dominated corporate environments. Monica shares how learning to ask for support, letting women in through community, and doing mindset/body-based work, helped her shift toward trust and surrender. She highlights three key practices: release control, stop carrying the past, and trust the process, and invites listeners to connect with her on social and discover her inclusive, timeless beauty brand.

00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro

00:43 From HR to Lipstick Startup

01:52 Permission to Take the Leap

03:34 Making the Brand Personal

04:24 What Is the I Got It Girl

06:29 Monica on Independence and Control

08:47 Letting People In and Real Support

11:54 Women Supporting Women

12:38 Corporate Culture and Being the Only Woman

15:44 Learning to Trust Women Again

17:00 Polka Dot Powerhouse in Action

18:20 Seeing People Again

19:42 Strength Meets Softness

21:14 Learning To Receive

23:12 Help In A Hard Year

24:29 Enneagram And Energy Flow

25:16 Top Three Growth Shifts

29:03 Where To Find Monica

31:47 Ask For Help Takeaway

32:43 Final Thanks And Share

You can follow and connect with Monica Walls at the following places:

https://www.instagram.com/kecasusna/

https://www.facebook.com/kecasusna

https://www.linkedin.com/in/monicawalls/

https://www.linkedin.com/company/keca-s-usna/

https://www.tiktok.com/@kecasusna

https://kecasusna.com/

For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links

You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

Coach Jackie welcomes entrepreneur and paralegal Tanean Schaller to discuss shifting from the “I got it” survival mindset into thriving through trust, surrender, and receiving support. Tanean shares launching Pink Seal Notary after realizing notaries can build independent businesses through loan signings, remote online notarizations, and field inspections, while maintaining her career and focusing on her legacy as a mom and “Gigi.” They talk about asking for help at home and in business, hiring support like website help and cleaners to reclaim time, and letting go of others’ opinions and permission-seeking. Tanean explains setting boundaries with family after resentment signaled misalignment, using therapy tools to say no and empower her daughter’s independence. Key takeaway: move unapologetically in silence and stop asking for permission, including from yourself.

00:00 Podcast Welcome

01:01 Meet Tanean Schaller

01:24 Notary Side Hustle

03:14 Family Legacy Why

05:15 Start Before Later

06:16 I Got It Girl

09:07 Letting Others Help

11:47 Outsourcing For Freedom

22:19 Stop Asking Permission

23:08 Handling Pushback

25:27 Thank You For Loving Me

26:18 Love From Afar Boundaries

27:11 Not Responsible For Others

28:40 PARRR and Radical Responsibility

31:49 Saying No To Family

32:46 Resentment As A Signal

36:29 Body Knows Alignment

41:08 Scary Versus Misaligned

42:18 Connect And Follow Tanean

43:16 Move In Silent Confidence

45:45 Final Thanks And Subscribe

You can contact Tanean Schaller at the following places:

Instagram: ts_pink seal notary

Website: pinksealnotary.com

Email: [email protected]

For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links

You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!

Coach Jackie welcomes Mardi Winder to the I Got It Girl podcast to discuss moving from survival-driven independence to letting go of control, asking for help, and building supportive relationships. Mardi, a strategic divorce consultant and high-conflict divorce coach, shares key turning points where she learned to reach out—after losing her adoptive parents before age 20, during her divorce, and after caring for and later losing her second husband. They explore how women’s support networks, masterminds, and “take what you like and leave the rest” thinking create better solutions than going it alone, and how corporate scarcity and information-hoarding can limit growth. Mardi explains finding community in a rural Texas farm life through yoga, volunteering, classes, and trying new activities, and outlines her path from mediation and domestic violence work to divorce coaching.

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

01:01 Mardi’s Farm Life

02:00 What Is an I Got It Girl

02:19 Jackie’s Survival Story

03:40 Learning to Let Go

04:07 Mardi’s Early Losses

05:38 Divorce Wall and Support

07:49 Masterminds and Real Advice

09:34 Take What You Like

12:13 Stop Hoarding Information

14:40 Corporate Scarcity Mindset

17:04 AI Won’t Replace Humans

17:34 Finding Friends After Loss

18:53 Yoga Grief Release

20:43 Try New Communities

22:21 Identity Beyond Work

24:47 Career Path to Divorce Coaching

27:31 Everything Connects Later

29:55 Mindset Lessons From Hard Years

32:05 Where to Find Mardi

33:04 Ask for Help Early

35:09 Closing Thanks and Subscribe

You can find Mardi Winder at the following links:

Website: https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/

Podcast: The D Shift: Redefining Divorce and Beyond

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

For all things Coach Jackie click here https://destinymakers.net/links

You will find access to all my programs, freebies, and ways to create your freedom life!