You worked for the goal, chased it, achieved it… and its not what you expected. In this episode, I unpack why hitting a milestone doesn’t always bring the fulfillment we imagine, what we’re actually chasing when we set goals (hint: it’s a feeling, not the achievement), and 3 questions to ask yourself to help you move forward when hitting that goal feels complicated.

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Make it Make Cents course

Ever cringe when you think about a past money decision? You’re not alone - and you’re definitely not stuck there.

In this episode of I Have Notes, I am sharing one of my favorite lessons from her Make it Make Cents Money Mindset course, breaking down how financial guilt, regret, and old money stories quietly shape your current results (and how to stop letting them).

You’ll learn why most “money mistakes” aren’t actually mistakes, how your brain made the best decision it could at the time, and how releasing financial shame can unlock better, calmer, and more confident money choices moving forward.

Inside this episode:

• Why your past money decisions still influence your financial life today

• The hidden cost of carrying financial regret

• A simple mindset shift that helps you stop sabotaging your own progress • How self-compassion can become a powerful wealth-building tool

This episode is pulled directly from my newMake it Make Cents Money Mindset course, a 20-lesson private podcast designed to help you understand your money past, take control of your money present, and intentionally build your money future.

If you’ve ever felt like you “should be better with money by now,” this episode will help you reset the narrative and start fresh.

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What does it really look like to grow a business or passion project while juggling a full-time job, family, and everyday life?

In this episode, the second in the Notes from an Entrepreneur series, I share a core mindset strategy I use while building my business in real time: committing firmly to my goals while staying flexible in how I reach them. I pull back the curtain on missing a recent revenue goal and how I reframed it as valuable data instead of failure.

If you're trying to build something meaningful alongside the rest of your life, this episode will give you a practical and realistic way to stay consistent, adaptable, and moving forward.

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This episode kicks off a new series where I pull back the curtain on what it really looks like to build a business while working full-time, parenting, and living a full life.

I share the honest story of how my coaching business started as a “jobby,” why I struggled to take it seriously for years, and how caregiving, fear, and self-doubt shaped the path I took. I talk about what it’s like to want more, to feel behind, to carry ambition alongside responsibility—and why I’m finally ready to go all in.

This isn’t a how-to. It’s a real-time look at building something meaningful in the margins of a busy life, and figuring it out as you go.

If you’ve ever wanted to build something bigger but weren’t sure how to do it with everything else on your plate, this series is for you.

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In this episode, I talk about perfectionism, fear, and the stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck—especially when we’re trying to build something new. Recording from my car (because real life), I dig into why so many of us wait until things feel “ready” before we take action, and how that instinct is often just our brain trying to keep us safe from discomfort.

We talk about why perfectionism isn’t actually about high standards, how fear disguises itself as “being responsible,” and why waiting to feel confident or polished is usually the thing holding you back. If you’ve been sitting on an idea, a goal, a project, or a dream because it doesn’t feel ready yet, this episode is your reminder that momentum matters more than perfection—and that you’re allowed to start messy.

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In this episode, I talk honestly about trying to stay grounded, motivated, and intentional while living in the horror of the Trump era and the very real harm being caused by policies like ICE enforcement. I wrestle with whether it even makes sense to focus on goals, growth, or building a business when so much feels so much more urgent and broken.

I share a personal reflection on asking myself, “Do I still want this?”- and how learning to tell the difference between quitting because something is hard and realizing it’s no longer aligned can change everything. If you’ve been feeling stuck, conflicted, or unsure how to move forward right now, this one’s for you.

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If you’re building something on the side while juggling a full-time job, family, and real life, this episode is for you.

In this episode of I Have Notes, I break down five mindset shifts that will help you stop feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or behind — and start making real progress on the thing you keep saying you “don’t have time for.”

We talk about:

• Why protecting your energy matters more than telling everyone your big plans
• How black-and-white thinking quietly sabotages progress (and what to do instead)
• The difference between being rigid about deadlines versus being rigid about how you get there
• Why investing in help isn’t indulgent — it’s strategic
• And how to make decisions from the version of you who’s already successful, not the one running on exhaustion and panic

Listen in if you’re ready to stop spinning and start moving forward — even with limited time, energy, and bandwidth.

In this episode of I Have Notes, I’m talking directly to anyone who has a side project, a business idea, a book, or a creative dream they can’t seem to make real - because life is already full. I break down the real reasons most people stay stuck (time, money, other people’s opinions, and self-doubt) and why waiting for the “perfect” moment is usually the thing holding us back. I talk about the power of doing B-minus work, collecting feedback, and letting momentum do its thing. If you’ve been sitting on an idea you care about but can’t seem to move forward, this episode is your reminder that you don’t need perfection, you just need to start.

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In this episode, I’m talking about money, mindset, and what The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills accidentally teaches us about power, identity, and financial responsibility. Using Dorit’s very public money unraveling as a case study, we dig into why mindset has to come before spreadsheets, why “just take action” isn’t enough, and how identity drives every financial decision we make. If you’ve ever felt anxious, avoidant, or ashamed around money, this one’s for you.

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Today's episode is a modified lesson from my upcoming money mindset course: Make it Make Cents. The course will cover all aspects of your money mindset - looking at your Past Self, Current Self and Future Self with money - and will help you see how your thoughts about money are creating your results with money.

The good news here? You can change your thoughts, and by doing that you will change your results with money.

Whether you're underpaid, overwhelmed, in a mountain of debt, or just ready to take your earning and money to the next level, this course will help you get there - and today's podcast episode will give you foundational principals found in the course which you can start applying TODAY to start changing your mindset, and your results, with money.

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