Choose Better Thoughts

"I Have To Do It Myself"


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In this episode, we aim at the belief “I have to do it myself.” You’ll see why a brain that can juggle only four things starts to melt down when you add “just one more,” learn a simple thought-to-result model that shows exactly where the stress begins and what it creates, and test a small delegation challenge that frees up real time…without lowering your standards.


If you’ve ever signed school forms at midnight and still woken up to chaos, this episode offers a new way forward, one shared task…and one calmer morning…at a time.


What You Will Learn:

  • Identify the “I-have-to-do-it-myself” loop using the self-coaching model, and then watch the same pattern pop up at work, at home, and everywhere in between.

  • Understand why working memory tops out at four items and how delegating protects your mental bandwidth.

  • Practice letting “lived-in” mess stay visible so your nervous system learns that not every untidy moment is an emergency.

  • Swap an unintentional self-coaching model for an intentional one with a single bridge thought, then track real-world proof in an evidence log.

  • Run a 24-hour delegation experiment that can win back almost two hours a week and teach your brain that collaboration really works.


Want to Go Deeper Into Your Mindset?

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Choose Better ThoughtsBy Amanda Doyle