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He’s not cruel. He shows up. He cares.
So why do you still feel like you’re carrying the relationship alone?
This episode is for the woman who keeps asking herself, “If I know he loves me, why do I feel so lonely?”
Inside, I’m breaking down:
✨ The disconnect between care and connection — and why your body knows the difference
✨ How childhood imprints taught you to settle for breadcrumbs and feel guilty for still being hungry
✨ Why loneliness inside a relationship is a nervous system signal (not a character flaw)
✨ Two self-healing practices to name your needs and validate your experience in real time
✨ Three journal prompts to uncover where you feel unmet and what connection really means for you
✨ The powerful reframe: you are not asking for too much — you’re asking for the right thing
This isn’t about blaming your partner. It’s about reclaiming your clarity, your body’s wisdom, and your right to want more than surface-level care.
Because care maintains, but connection nourishes. And your heart deserves to be nourished.
💖 Ready to heal the root of your relationship anxiety?
Book a free discovery call for my 12-week coaching program, Healing Her: A Relationship Reset
👉 [www.dianafjer.com/healing-her]
📬 Join the mailing list for exclusive content you won’t find anywhere else:
Free guides, special offers, early access to new programs, and tools to support your healing journey.
👉 [Join the mailing list!]
🌀 Follow me everywhere: @dianafjer.coach
By Diana FjerHe’s not cruel. He shows up. He cares.
So why do you still feel like you’re carrying the relationship alone?
This episode is for the woman who keeps asking herself, “If I know he loves me, why do I feel so lonely?”
Inside, I’m breaking down:
✨ The disconnect between care and connection — and why your body knows the difference
✨ How childhood imprints taught you to settle for breadcrumbs and feel guilty for still being hungry
✨ Why loneliness inside a relationship is a nervous system signal (not a character flaw)
✨ Two self-healing practices to name your needs and validate your experience in real time
✨ Three journal prompts to uncover where you feel unmet and what connection really means for you
✨ The powerful reframe: you are not asking for too much — you’re asking for the right thing
This isn’t about blaming your partner. It’s about reclaiming your clarity, your body’s wisdom, and your right to want more than surface-level care.
Because care maintains, but connection nourishes. And your heart deserves to be nourished.
💖 Ready to heal the root of your relationship anxiety?
Book a free discovery call for my 12-week coaching program, Healing Her: A Relationship Reset
👉 [www.dianafjer.com/healing-her]
📬 Join the mailing list for exclusive content you won’t find anywhere else:
Free guides, special offers, early access to new programs, and tools to support your healing journey.
👉 [Join the mailing list!]
🌀 Follow me everywhere: @dianafjer.coach