I Now Pronounce You Divorced

I Now Pronounce You Divorced

By Melone Hatley, P.C.Education
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I Now Pronounce You Divorced episodes

  • Make Holiday Co-Parenting Easier with OurFamilyWizard ft. Danielle Kestnbaum

    The holiday season can bring joy, but for some co-parents, it can also bring stress. From juggling schedules to managing emotions, communication can easily get complicated.

    In the Season 2 premiere of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, Charles Hatley and Dan Cuneo sit down with Danielle Kestnbaum from OurFamilyWizard to explore how co-parents can navigate the holidays with less conflict and more cooperation.

    They dive into how technology can make a meaningful difference for co-parent interactions. From shared calendars and parenting plans to tools like the Tone Meter, OurFamilyWizard helps keep communication respectful and constructive.

    Danielle also shares success stories from families who’ve used the platform to transform tense situations into more peaceful exchanges, plus a look at new features coming soon.

    Whether you’re newly separated or a seasoned co-parent, this episode offers practical strategies to help you manage emotions, stay organized, and focus on what really matters — your children’s well-being.

    19 min
  • Season Finale: Communication, Costs, and Clarity in Divorce

    In the 100th, and final, episode of Season 1 of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, our hosts take a deep dive into one of the most common questions in family law: “How much does divorce really cost?”


    From the unpredictability of legal expenses to the importance of setting clear client expectations, this episode unpacks the financial realities of divorce. The discussion explores why costs can vary so widely, the role of communication in managing client relationships, and the situations where a non-suit might be the most effective path forward.


    This milestone episode reinforces the podcast’s mission: to provide clarity, resources, and support to those navigating the challenges of divorce.


    Thank you for being part of Season 1! Stay tuned because Season 2 is on the horizon, and we can’t wait to bring you even more insights into family law, financial planning, and the divorce process.

    20 min
  • Somatic Healing and Divorce Recovery: Rebuilding Your Life Post-Divorce Ft. Madisen Rose

    We've said many times that divorce isn’t just a legal process. It’s an emotional journey that can leave people feeling overwhelmed, isolated, and uncertain about the future.


    In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, hosts Charles Hatley, Rebecca Melone, and Dan Cuneo sit down with Madisen Rose, CEO of Better Half to Whole, to unpack the emotional hurdles of divorce and what it really takes to start healing.


    Madisen shares candid insights on the feelings of failure many people face, why it’s essential to release the sunk cost fallacy, and how somatic healing can help the body let go of trauma.


    Together, they explore the complexities of navigating relationships with mutual friends, grieving the loss of a social circle, and the small but powerful first steps you can take to rebuild your life.


    Whether you’re in the thick of divorce or supporting someone you care about, this conversation offers guidance, validation, and strategies to move forward with resilience and hope.

    18 min
  • Finding Clarity: Financial Planning for Life After Divorce Ft. Erin Jackson

    Going through a divorce brings more than emotional changes; it reshapes your financial future. In this episode, Charles and Dan sit down with financial advisor Erin Jackson from Your Financial Growth Partners to discuss the key steps to achieving financial clarity during and after divorce.

    Erin explains why clarity and emotional detachment are vital for making sound financial decisions, and how building the right support team, including financial advisors and estate planners, can make all the difference.

    From adopting a protection-first approach to evaluating home ownership, updating insurance and beneficiaries, and rethinking estate plans, Erin offers practical guidance for protecting yourself and moving forward with confidence.

    23 min
  • Credit, Mortgages, and Divorce: What You Need to Know Ft. Chris RIce

    In this episode, Charles Hatley and Chris Rice, a Home Mortgage Originator with OVM with Annie Mac Home Mortgage, dive into the critical financial steps you need to take during and after a divorce.

    From protecting your credit score to managing joint accounts, refinancing mortgages, and planning for financial independence, this conversation clears up common myths and offers practical guidance to help you move forward with confidence.

    Whether you’re in the middle of a divorce or preparing for one, this episode will equip you with tools to safeguard your financial future.

    30 min
  • Confidentiality, Crisis, and Corporate Ethics in Family Law Ft. Wes Mason

    In this special episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, hosts Dan Cuneo and Rebecca Melone sit down with Wes Mason of Principal Strategies to explore the intersection of family law, workplace relationships, and HR policies.

    From navigating confidentiality in HR reporting to managing corporate scandals with integrity, the conversation dives deep into how personal and professional lives collide—and what it means for both employees and employers.

    They discuss the impact of no-fault divorce on asset dissipation, the legal challenges subpoenas can create in internal investigations, and the vital role Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) play in supporting employees during difficult transitions.


    If you’ve ever wondered how workplace dynamics influence family law cases, or how personal challenges can ripple into corporate settings, this conversation is one you won’t want to miss!


    20 min
  • Parenting After Divorce: Protecting Kids’ Mental Health Ft. Melissa Zentner

    Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage; it reshapes the lives of children in ways that can last a lifetime. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, Charles Hatley sits down with Melissa Zentner, from It Begins Within, to uncover the hidden impact divorce has on children’s mental health and emotional security.

    Together, they dive into the complexities of childhood trauma, how different parenting styles influence recovery, and why unresolved emotions often follow children into adulthood.

    They also explore how technology complicates co-parenting, the benefits of parallel parenting for reducing conflict, and why a trauma-informed approach is essential for family stability.

    This episode is a must-listen for parents, co-parents, and professionals working with families navigating divorce.

    22 min
  • Protecting Your Rights: What Domestic Violence Allegations Mean for Divorce and Custody

    Domestic violence cases don’t just stay in criminal court, they often spill into family law, shaping the outcome of divorce, custody, and even visitation rights.

    In this episode of Melone Hatley’s I Now Pronounce You Divorced, COO Dan Cuneo sits down with San Antonio Family Law Attorney Valerie Cortinas Fisher to unpack the complex overlap between domestic violence, divorce, custody, and criminal law in Texas.

    Together, they break down:

    ◾How criminal charges can complicate divorce and custody proceedings

    ◾Why bond conditions may restrict contact with children or spouses

    ◾The differences in the burden of proof between criminal and family courts

    ◾And more!

    Whether you’re an attorney, a professional working with families, or someone navigating these challenges yourself, tune in for valuable insight on how criminal and family courts interact—and what effective legal representation really looks like.

    19 min
  • Divorce with Clarity: Self-Regulation and Healing for a New Chapter Ft. Annette Pheby

    Divorce is never just a legal process, it’s an emotional upheaval that can affect every corner of your life. In this episode of Melone Hatley's I Now Pronounce You Divorced, Dan Cuneo sits down with guest Psychologist and Relational Life Coach, Annette Pheby, to unpack the emotional realities of divorce, from the intense pain of infidelity to the daily challenges of self-regulation.

    They explore how therapy can help both during and after divorce, especially when children are involved, and why self-awareness is essential for navigating anxiety, depression, and relationship strain.

    If you’re in the middle of a divorce or in the rebuilding phase afterward, this conversation offers practical insight and compassionate advice to help you move forward with clarity and resilience.

    23 min
  • Divorce, Custody & Support: Making It Work for the Kids

    It’s Child Support Awareness Month, and we’re diving into one of the most crucial yet misunderstood topics in family law: child support during divorce.

    In this episode, family law attorneys Charles Hatley and Dan Cuneo break down the real-world impact of child support orders, from retroactive and temporary support to what qualifies as reasonable child care costs.

    Whether you're in the middle of a custody dispute or preparing for a separation, this episode will help you understand how child support guidelines are applied, what courts look for in terms of co-parenting efforts, and why communication between parents matters more than ever.

    19 min

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