Intentional and emotionally available dating after a season of healing is SO important to save yourself the time and energy of being in unconscious and toxic relationships. But what about the grey areas of life where you're truly in a season of not necessarily caring about or needing to find the end all be all because you're healing, focusing on other things, or even are just being emotionally unavailable and avoidant? 

We dive into it all here, with intention so you can figure out your current relationship season.

If you're interested in being first in line for 1-1 coaching spots when they open email [email protected]

xoxo

In today's episode my boyfriend Dustin Rybka joins the conversation where we discuss a lot of things related to the kink we explore in our relationship as well as some common misconceptions around kink that i've come to learn and explore through my own education and exploration in this area.

Enjoy!
Reach out to me on instagram at @giannaloveandlight for any support or to share your thoughts!
xo

On today's episode of I Really Love Myself, I talk about the next part of the emotional and relational growth journey.
Once you are really good at being alone and soothing your anxious tendencies, how do you ensure you'll be deeply met by a partner?
You have to make sure you're not losing yourself in your hyper-independence because you deserve the kind of love and connection that truly ADDS to your life and you have to be authentic to let in what you authentically desire.

All the details on my mastermind- http://bit.ly/wetmastermind

Every mornin', I glared at you with storms in my eyes
How can you say that you love someone you can't tell is dyin'?
I sent you signals and bit my nails down to the quick
My face was gray, but you wouldn't admit that we were sick

We all know what being abandoned feels like and looks like, but what about emotional abandonment?

In this episode we dig into what emotional abandonment looks like and feels like in a relationship, how to handle it, and i share an experience where i felt emotionally abandoned in a past relationship.

It's a silent relationship killer.

As Taylor Swift says in her song High Infidelity, "There's many different ways to kill the one you love and one of them is never loving them enough."

DM me on instagram or facebook to explore coaching options with me or email [email protected]

In todays episode i share an authentic conversation between my boyfriend and I about my journey around my own sexual evolution that was a big factor in leading me out of my last relationship and all of the changes i made in my life and my advice for you to stay true to your own personal, romantic, and sexual evolution.

Enjoy!

Am I a selfish slut? Is that a bad thing? Let's talk about healthy boundaries, getting really SAVAGELY protective of your own energy, time, radiance, and thriving, and unapologetically taking up space and not give your energy and love away to people who don't deserve it..

PS- Bejeweled- my 6 week like group coaching program to help you be SO good to yourself, feel worthy of what you want and get it all..Closes Feb 7th, check out all the details and join here--> https://bit.ly/Bejeweledprogram

In this episode I share part 1 of my story of getting into my new relationship with my boyfriend Dustin as a guest and we have a fun, authentic, and value packed conversation about how he as a previously self proclaimed emotionally avoidant ended up finding his way into a relationship with me.
Our story of how we got together is very interesting, on BOTH ends where we shamelessly stayed true to ourselves the entire way. I embodied what i preach.

PS-Join us in the Villain Era $7 Masterclass on being your authentic self, taking up space, prioritizing your wants and needs without apology, and attracting your soulmate people from deep pleasure. <3
 
What you’ll learn:

-getting more deeply in touch with what you really want and need in love and life

-navigating unfamiliar parts of yourself with eagerness and curiosity

-being your authentic self without fear of judgment and taking up space unapologetically 

-what having clean boundaries really looks like and taking great fucking care of your well being and happiness first ALWAYS 

-attracting in love and soulmate people who are obsessed with your authentic self that you can have the deepest most beautiful connections with 

Available until the end of the week <3

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In today's episode we dive into the fear of being alone, ending up alone, and how to confront and address feelings of loneliness.

Being able to be alone is an important life skill that will allow you to honor your boundaries and standards in relationships (and actually end up in a deeply fulfilling relationship as a result), because the worse thing that *could* happen is you die alone..
Like... Don't tempt me with a good time.. ;) lol

I share my experience of navigating a feeling of feeling alone in navigating my breakup, moving, and big life transitions and more.

Where to apply for the private 6 month coaching spot-https://giannalightworker.com/1-1

Details on Wound-mate or Soulmate online workshop:
There will be a replay that you'll have lifetime access to.
A wound mate is someone you’re drawn to from a place of unaddressed trauma, low self worth, and codependency.

These relationships often aren’t the ones that last-but rather are painful lessons for you to get you ready for your soulmate. 

You don’t have to keep finding yourself in wound mate relationships…

There will be a replay if you can’t come live.

What we will be covering:

-Dating with discernment and how to filter out the wrong, toxic relationships that don’t last and let in what you want

-the red flags in you and in a relationship that are showing you that this relationship isn’t healthy and likely won’t end well.

-how to pin point the part of you and address it that is feeling pulled to an unhealthy relationship.

-the difference between intuition, discernment, and fearful projections

-recognizing the green flags in what you’re feeling and in a new potential partner that tell you this is likely a healthy soulmate relationship 

And more

Purchase your 50% off spot here: https://bit.ly/woundmatesoulmate

*Trigger warning* this episode intimately talks about disordered eating.

In this episode I open up about my past struggles with an eating disorder and how my body image issues fed off of my formerly anxious, codependent, low self worth tendencies, and my fears of abandonment in relationships. 
I share about how i over came it, and how i feel about these things now and the mindset of really no longer believing you're nothing short of a highly sought after hot woman who is SO wanted.

If you're SO ready to be highly supported by me in getting real results and embodying self love, loving your body, overcoming anxious attachment, codependency, self abandonment, and stepping into your most authentic feminine self and actually manifest the relationship you really want..

Apply for the 1 open spot in my 1-1 6 month coaching program here:
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In today's episode we dive into the external pressure we can feel to settle down by a certain age, the fear of not finding someone "in time", the biological clock ticking, competing with younger women in the dating pool, and releasing the scarcity mindset no matter your age, feeling worthy and relaxed no matter where you are, trusting yourself and your timing and getting everything you want.

While also of course i run my mouth in the process, tell you the loving truth, share my own experiences, sprinkled with some F bombs along the way.

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