What if the thing standing between you and the life you want isn’t failure… but your habit of starting over?

After a couple of chaotic months, an unexpected job application, an interview that didn’t feel quite right, and a rejection I was surprisingly relieved to receive, I started noticing a pattern in my life… every time I begin gaining momentum, I get distracted by another path.

In this episode, I’m thinking out loud about self-sabotage, chasing squirrels, and the sneaky way perfectionism can show up as constantly searching for a better path. Maybe we don’t always need to pivot, reinvent ourselves, or start over. Maybe sometimes we just need to stay long enough to see what happens.

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