On Ep. 21 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss whether or not it’s okay to change for your significant other. What is healthy and what is unhealthy? How important are boundaries in a relationship? The two open up about things they have changed about themselves in past relationships, and things they will not change in the future. Moni and Drea also talk about things men have said about their physical appearance that have stuck with them. Men - Don’t know what to do for a first date because you don’t know her intentions? Listen up!

00:00 Updates / Lovers & Friends recap

15:00 Regretting changing for your S.O.

25:20 Comments on appearance cut deep

35:55 Willingness to change for your S.O.

47:15 Boundaries to avoid losing yourself

01:06:28 Planning a first date - Place, $

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