By Moni & Drea
We know you're thinking it, so we'll just come out and say it. We say what's on our minds, and we know what we want. Tune in to our discussions around relationships, sex, dating, and anything else
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The podcast currently has 86 episodes available.
On Ep. 85 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how crossing boundaries is toxic, even if you feel like you have a good reason to. Is invading your partner's privacy okay if you're married and live together? Moni addresses ways in which you can approach your partner in a healthier way when you feel insecure or need reassurance. For example, if you feel the need to look at your partner's phone.
00:00 Updates/Planning dates
11:40 Invading privacy and boundaries
37:40 Oral and cotton mouth
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 84 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how being too focused on setting a timeline for your life can cause you to settle for less. She explains how it is beneficial to set goals for yourself, but it is also important to be mindful whether those goals will compromise your relationships with others. How long is too long to wait for a marriage proposal? Moni gives some advice to fellow Flinger about this topic.
00:00 Updates
13:50 Don't prioritize the timeline
30:10 Asking for the proposal
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 83 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings back her childhood best friend @alynn.andersen to discuss her wedding planning experience. Alynn talks about the societal pressure to get married and to have a traditional wedding. She explains why she chose to do things the unorthodox way. Stressing about who to invite to your wedding? Listen up because Alynn provides good advice on her personal experience. Lastly, the two answer questions from fellow Flingers - exclusivity without a title, dealing with someone out of your league, and trashy baby daddies.
00:00 Societal pressure to get married
30:00 Inviting people to the wedding
36:35 Exclusivity, out of my league, baby daddies
Follow guest Alynn on Instagram @alynn.andersen !
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 82 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how important it is to create and maintain a safe space for you and your partner to have uncomfortable conversations. Are you able to open up about your past traumas or experiences? If you're unhappy, do you feel comfortable addressing your concerns? Can you be unapologetically yourself? If you do not feel safe enough to do these things, you may need to reevaluate the relationship you're in. Lastly, Moni gives some advice to a fellow Flinger about addressing the taste of her boyfriend's cum.
00:00 Updates
03:10 Safety in relationships
12:55 Creating the safe place
35:20 My bf's cum tastes bad
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 81 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro answers a variety of questions regarding what constitutes cheating. Having an OnlyFans? Watching porn? Going to the strip club? She also answers whether or not a guy should ask you formally to be his girlfriend and if proposing without a ring is okay. Do you care if your significant other follows their ex? And have you had your ass ate yet? Listen up and find out.
00:00 Updates
09:30 OF, porn, strip clubs are cheating?
25:40 Proposing, following exes, ass play
40:00 I emotionally cheated, what now?
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 80 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro has an open discussion about whether or not you owe someone complete honesty during the talking stage of dating. Is it easy to forgive someone for lying if you guys have only been dating a couple weeks? A month? Where do you draw the line? Should you build trust prior to entering a relationship or is trust built once commitment is established? Moni ends the episode answering advice for a fellow Flinger regarding whether or not it's appropriate for their significant other to be texting a coworker of the opposite sex regarding things that are not work-related.
00:00 Updates
14:15 Do I owe you complete honesty?
34:55 My bf is txting his female coworker
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 79 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro welcomes back @drea.monte back, as the break without her has been too long! The two keep it light on this week’s episode by playing a little game called Never Have I Ever. Listen to some funny stories and learn a little thing or two about your favorite hosts.
00:00 Never have I ever
36:30 Ick if he baby talks?
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 78 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses whether you should keep your relationship public or private. Listen up because it may not be what you're expecting to hear. She also talks about how and when you should bring up introducing your parents to your new partner. Lastly, Moni gives advice about how to go about having period sex. If you haven't tried it, you should now.
00:00 Updates
06:20 Public vs. private relationships
15:35 Meeting the parents
29:10 Try period sex
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 77 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings guest @raul__perezoficial on to discuss the beginning of his promising music career and how his passion for singing started. Learn a little more about this up and coming artist from Phoenix, AZ and sneak a preview of one of his songs that will be on his new album, Soledad Vol. I that will be dropping soon!
00:00 Intro/About Raul Perez
04:00 His love for music
12:30 Lover boys for the win
35:10 Sneak peak of Soledad Vol. I
Don't miss the release of Raul's album Soledad Vol. I!
Follow guest Raul on Instagram @raul__perezoficial and TikTok @raulperez1090 for all the necessary updates.
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
On Ep. 76 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro talks all things Love Island USA. If you like reality TV or even if you don't, Season 6 of Love Island USA is a must watch...now streaming on Peacock! Moni breaks down different parts of the season that relate to all things dating. She ends with the advice segment, going over some ways to bring up that awkward, nerve-racking exclusivity conversation.
00:00 Updates
07:30 Dissecting Love Island
37:20 How to bring up exclusivity
Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !
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