Flings N' Things

On Ep. 80 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro has an open discussion about whether or not you owe someone complete honesty during the talking stage of dating. Is it easy to forgive someone for lying if you guys have only been dating a couple weeks? A month? Where do you draw the line? Should you build trust prior to entering a relationship or is trust built once commitment is established? Moni ends the episode answering advice for a fellow Flinger regarding whether or not it's appropriate for their significant other to be texting a coworker of the opposite sex regarding things that are not work-related.

00:00 Updates

14:15 Do I owe you complete honesty?

34:55 My bf is txting his female coworker

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On Ep. 79 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro welcomes back @drea.monte back, as the break without her has been too long! The two keep it light on this week’s episode by playing a little game called Never Have I Ever. Listen to some funny stories and learn a little thing or two about your favorite hosts.

00:00 Never have I ever

36:30 Ick if he baby talks?

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On Ep. 78 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses whether you should keep your relationship public or private. Listen up because it may not be what you're expecting to hear. She also talks about how and when you should bring up introducing your parents to your new partner. Lastly, Moni gives advice about how to go about having period sex. If you haven't tried it, you should now.

00:00 Updates

06:20 Public vs. private relationships

15:35 Meeting the parents

29:10 Try period sex

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On Ep. 77 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings guest @raul__perezoficial on to discuss the beginning of his promising music career and how his passion for singing started. Learn a little more about this up and coming artist from Phoenix, AZ and sneak a preview of one of his songs that will be on his new album, Soledad Vol. I that will be dropping soon!

00:00 Intro/About Raul Perez

04:00 His love for music

12:30 Lover boys for the win

35:10 Sneak peak of Soledad Vol. I

Don't miss the release of Raul's album Soledad Vol. I!

Follow guest Raul on Instagram @raul__perezoficial and TikTok @raulperez1090 for all the necessary updates.

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On Ep. 76 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro talks all things Love Island USA. If you like reality TV or even if you don't, Season 6 of Love Island USA is a must watch...now streaming on Peacock! Moni breaks down different parts of the season that relate to all things dating. She ends with the advice segment, going over some ways to bring up that awkward, nerve-racking exclusivity conversation.

00:00 Updates

07:30 Dissecting Love Island

37:20 How to bring up exclusivity

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On Ep. 75 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro addresses the shitty feeling of rejection and how to deal with it. She specifically addresses how to be a respectful rejector and rejectee. Are you struggling with communication? Well, better listen up because your relationship is at risk! Lastly, would you give swinging a try if your marriage was falling apart? Moni explains her thoughts.

00:00 Updates

04:20 Handling rejection properly

19:00 Improving communication

29:40 Swinging or not?

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On Ep. 74 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro and guest @tally_1208 discuss the importance of your parents being the role models for a healthy relationship while growing up. Tiffaney opens up about how her mother's navigation through relationships has negatively impacted her own romantic relationships today. The two also go over examples of ways they want to be with their partners when they have kids. Are you always hesitant to open up about past trauma with new partners? Listen up, you're not alone.

00:00 Relationship role model parents

33:05 What do you want yours kids to see?

50:00 Opening up about trauma when dating

59:00 My bf has a secret child

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Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

On Ep. 73 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings guest @jesuslojeezy on to discuss when and how the topic of finances should come up as your relationship progresses. Haven't thought about asking for that credit score yet? Listen up Flingers! Jesus also explains why he thinks men are having a hard time committing in a society where there are so many available options. Does body count matter? How often does a man expect to have sex? And if you're boyfriend isn't having sex with you, is he cheating? Jesus addresses all of these and more.

00:00 Dating preferences & red flags

13:50 Finances & dating

38:20 Commitment & available options

47:40 Bedroom talk & body count

57:20 Why isn't my bf f*cking me?

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On Ep. 71 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro is back with another solo episode. Should you be loyal when you're newly dating someone? Moni explains why you should or should not be. She then addresses how to end that toxic breakup-makeup cycle that many of us know too well. The episode ends with her discussing self-sabotaging, and how important it is to be self-aware of your triggers in order to deal with them.

00:00 Updates

05:50 Being loyal to someone your dating

10:45 Toxic breakup-makeup cycle

29:00 Self-sabotaging & identifying triggers

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On Ep. 71 of @flingsnthingsofficial, we are focusing on the "Things". @moni.montenegro interviews @tally_1208 about her childhood experiences growing up with her mother, who was convicted of the second degree murder of Sergeant Daniel Baker of Tennessee. When we hear crazy stories like these, we tend to question the life of the murderer, but do we ever take the time to think about how their family is impacted? Tiffaney is the oldest child of Erika Castro-Miles, and we all know being the oldest is very difficult. Listen in to hear all things family trauma.

00:00 Intro

06:50 Family trauma, abuse, & poor parenting

43:35 Erika Castro-Miles murder trial

01:04:10 Normalize ditching toxic family members

Follow guest Tiffaney on Instagram @tally_1208 !

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

If you're a crime junkie or would just like more information about the story, see the links below:

News Recap: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBgrUE6aLn0

Trial: https://www.youtube.com/live/PeWYKq0RzxI

Plea Agreement: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9xD4M4HweQ