Flings N' Things

On Ep. 70 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings back guest @alynn.andersen to discuss different ways to cope with losing your loved ones. You get two different perspectives, as Moni hasn't experienced many people close to her passing like Alynn has. The two also explain ways in which you can support those who are grieving around you, specifically a significant other. They end the episode answering advice about how to tell your partner you don't want to split bills 50/50 anymore.

00:00 First encounter with death

13:25 Cry & feel everything

23:10 Supporting those who are grieving

45:30 Splitting bills 50/50 with your partner

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On Ep. 69 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro goes solo! Drea is living her best life in Puerto Rico this week, so you get all things advice from Moni. She addresses how long couples should date before they decide to get married and the benefits of leaving your hometown, home state, or home country. She ends the episode answering advice on how to bring your cheating boyfriend back around your friends and family.

00:00 Updates

04:10 Ep. 68 follow-up convo

09:50 How long to date before marriage

20:35 Moving away from home

38:40 Taking a cheater back

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On Ep. 68 of @flingsnthingsofficial, changes are announced and @moni.montenegro opens up about a secret she has been keeping...she has been married! Listen in for all of the details and chisme. Moni brings on her best friend @alynn.andersen midway through the episode to help tell the story and discuss all things related to getting married young, signs you're not ready, and even moving in together beforehand. If you're wondering where @drea.monte is, don't worry Flingers, she will be back!

00:00 Moni's truth / Young divorcée

26:20 Getting married young

49:35 There's always another person

01:00:00 Moving in before marriage

01:08:40 Confronting the cheater

Follow guest Alynn on Instagram @alynn.andersen !

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

On Ep. 67 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how they have become more open-minded when it comes to music and other life experiences. They also touch on their experiences with identity crises in relation to music. Do you want to discuss threesomes with your significant other? They tell you how...or how not to.

00:00 Music & identity crises

24:30 Being more open-minded

40:20 How to approach threesomes

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On Ep. 66 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss if being a nice person is the same as being a good person. They also debate whether you should trust someone right away or if someone needs to earn your trust? Does confidence and trust go hand in hand? The two also touch on unconditional love and go over which love language they could live without.

00:00 Updates

12:10 Good person vs. Nice person

23:55 Do they need to earn trust?

41:55 Unconditional love doesn't exist

47:30 Giving up a love language

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On Ep. 65 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk about dating apps once again. Moni is thrilled with the options in Phoenix, and Drea is intrigued. The two decide to add women to their preferences to experiment and see what happens. Ever feel nervous to have sex for the first time with someone? You're not alone.

00:00 Updates

08:20 Having sex sober

20:40 Experimenting with women

39:45 What warms your soul

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On Ep. 64 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte celebrate another 420 episode by recapping their experience at Arizona's Budsapalooza event and reminiscing about their early experiences smoking weed. The two also go over their thoughts on pegging and anal play. Have you dated a true stoner? They have, and listen up because they don't recommend. Lastly, they give advice about what signs to look out for if you think your ex is seeing someone new.

00:00 Lots of updates

12:00 AZ Budsapalooza

24:30 Smoking stories

41:35 High sex & DP

52:15 Dating a stoner

01:01:25 Signs my ex moved on

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On Ep. 63 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss ways to deal with stress, talk about how exhausting people-pleasing is, and question whether or not it's possible to love yourself without conditions. They also discuss who their podcaster crushes are. You guys asked!

00:00 Dealing with stress

28:20 People-pleasing is exhausting

36:15 Loving yourself without conditions

49:35 Podcaster crushes

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

On Ep. 62 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the dos and don'ts of first dates. Let's just say they have more don'ts...Do you hate first dates? Do you get overwhelmed with anxiety? You're not alone! The two explain there own experiences and tips to deal with it. Lastly, is it weird that your spouse wants to go on a solo trip? Let's hear what Moni and Drea have to say.

00:00 First date DOs & DON'Ts

20:35 Overcoming anxiety while dating

35:40 Solo trip while married?

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On Ep. 61 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the many benefits of sleeping - aging gracefully, avoiding your problems, and staying off the streets. They also address whether or not you can successfully work on yourself while in a relationship. Stay tuned for their advice segment. A fellow flinger asks the dreaded question - when do you call it quits?

00:00 Updates & 69

10:10 The benefits of sleeping

24:05 Self-growth in a relationship

40:40 When to call it quits

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !