Flings N' Things

On Ep. 50 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte have their first female guest on, Shawndra Lyle. You don’t want to miss the last episode of the year, as we saved the best for last! Shawndra shares her life experiences and everything she has learned by going through what no one should have to go through. She covers topics such as being adopted, having a child with a cheating partner, co-parenting with a narcissist, and many more. Shawndra provides a lot of great advice in hopes other women feel empowered to stand up for what they deserve and overcome the fear of starting over.

00:00 I was adopted by a Black family

15:10 He cheated the entire relationship

27:25 I left him for my daughter

36:10 I thought things would get better

47:15 Social media is a lie

52:25 Co-parenting with a narcissist

01:01:40 Heal yourself with therapy

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On Ep. 49 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte engage in some more pillow talk after a nice little sesh. They address whether it is rude to speak in another language in front of someone who doesn't understand the language. They also talk about all of their pet peeves when it comes to having a roommate. Have you ever acted on a crush at work? You're not alone, but you're also living life on the edge. Lastly, the two express their views on how fancy a first date should be.

00:00 Updates/Shenanigans

03:00 Rude to speak in another language

09:10 Roommate pet peeves

29:10 Crushes on coworkers

33:15 First date type of restaurant

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On Ep. 48 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte continue the conversation around friendships. The two discuss the importance of someone’s character, and how we tend to fight harder for romantic relationships versus our friendships. Is it fair to expect someone to be there for you if you don’t ask them to be? Are you 100% your raw, vulnerable self with your friends? And if not, is that a bad thing? Lastly, they answer advice on how to tell if someone is wasting your time?

00:00 Updates

12:00 Character is important

27:40 Fighting for a friendship

42:25 Expecting without communication

47:15 Being 100% yourself with friends

01:05:25 Are you wasting your time?

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On Ep. 47 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk friendships. Why do more women use their friends' insecurities against them in comparison to men? The two address some differences between women and men in friendships. They also discuss the difficulty of keeping friendships alive and what can help. Have you ever experienced a friend distance themself when in a toxic relationship? You're not alone! Communication is not only important in romantic relationships, but in friendships as well. If you're hurt, speak up. Lastly, Moni and Drea give advice about kissing on the first date.

00:00 Updates

08:35 Vulnerabilities in friendships

14:10 Effort to keep friendships alive

28:00 Abandoning friends in relationships

45:35 Communicating your emotions

55:35 Kissing on the first date

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On Ep. 46 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte take it back to their childhoods. This is one of their most serious episodes yet, so be prepared to start looking inward at all your habits, tendencies, and past relationships. The two open up and get real about things they are currently working on that is going to better their relationships. Are you upset that you're getting older and still have no kids? Listen up and you'll realize your kids will be better off. Lastly, Moni and Drea address staying in touch with your ex's family in their advice segment.

00:00 Learning and growing

24:00 A safe space to be emotional

54:35 Keep people who help you grow

01:00:10 Benefits to having kids older

01:17:50 Cutting ties with your ex's family

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On Ep. 45 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte revisit situationships and other random topics regarding dating. Because they love it so much...not. Ladies, do any of you struggle to feel emotions during sex or struggle to detach yourself from people? You're not alone! Have you ever thought about how you would feel if your ex died? The two share different perspectives on the topics. Tired of running back to the same toxic dick? Listen up for their advice segment - Out With The Old, In With The New!

00:00 Sex without emotions

23:20 What if your ex died?

34:00 Detaching yourself from people

43:50 You're his last choice

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On Ep. 44 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how addicting social media can be and how difficult it can be to stay productive on your downtime. They then go back and forth between whether money is the key to happiness, or love. Are you tired of situationships? Well, Moni and Drea are going to tell you what it is and why they’re a waste of time. Do you care if your friend’s make a comment about how attractive your new bf or gf is? Maybe you’re just overthinking it. Listen up!

00:00 Social media is addictive

13:45 Happiness comes in waves

26:00 Stop claiming this pussy

36:35 Situationships are pointless

51:10 Working on better communication

01:08:20 Calling your friend’s S.O. attractive

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On Ep. 43 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk pregnancy. They discuss controversial topics regarding genetic manipulation, IVF, and terminating pregnancies due to concerns and complications. Moni brings up her potential desire for using a sperm donor, and Drea provides her thoughts on the idea. The two also discuss how it would be to have to split up time for the holidays when they're married. Lastly, is it a red flag that your boyfriend won't post that he's in a relationship with you? Listen up!

00:00 Updates

12:00 Pregnancy decisions

27:00 Getting a sperm donor

34:25 Splitting up time for the holidays

44:55 Not posting gf/bf on socials

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On Ep. 42 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss prenups, and why women shouldn’t be offended if they’re asked to sign one. Then they go into which professions are hot and why, so listen up men! A listener then asks for some advice regarding her bachelorette party. Her best friend says she can’t go because her husband won’t let her. Lastly, the two talk about habits in relationships and whether marriage is something they see themselves pursuing.

00:00 Updates

15:00 Are prenups disrespectful?

25:50 Hot professions

35:05 Bachelorette party problems

49:20 Back and forth about marriage

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On Ep. 41 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte deal with a nasty hangover by showing up to record after a little smoke sesh. No plan, no nothing. They recap Drea’s surprise party at the strip club and reminisce on how messed up Moni gets at every birthday party. Drea takes the lead by asking random questions! Shits and giggles is the perfect description of how the rest of the episode went. This is why they don't smoke and pod. Lastly, the two revisit an advice question from last episode regarding intimacy issues in a long-term relationship involving kids.

00:00 Updates / Drea’s stripper birthday

18:25 Shits and giggles (Random questions)

33:40 Life experiences that have impacted you

41:00 Has your concept of love changed?

01:02:30 Revisiting how to bring back intimacy

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Find them on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !