Flings N' Things

On Ep. 30 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the issues with telling your friends too many details about your dating life. How long do you wait to introduce your new significant other? Is there a right time? Moni has a problem going back to her exes, but Drea doesn’t. The two go back and forth about why people do it and if people really can change.

00:00 Updates

08:45 Keep your dating life more private

21:30 Waiting to introduce your S.O.

27:30 Going back to an ex

53:20 Does he actually like me?

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On Ep. 29 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte have @osotojr_ on to provide us with yet another male's perspective. Guest Omar shares some of his views and experiences with dating and relationships. Moni and Drea ask Omar questions regarding traditional and modern dating, cheating, preferences in the bedroom, and much more. They even let him ask some of his own questions. Listen up ladies!

00:00 Intro / About Omar Soto

23:55 Emotional vs. physical cheating

28:10 F*cking on the first date

34:50 Omar’s preferences in the bedroom

43:45 Men DO NOT read minds

52:35 S.O. changing in a relationship

01:06:20 My bf won’t have sex with me

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On Ep. 28 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte open up the episode by announcing their return into their toxic era. Moni fell into her old ways again, but it makes for an entertaining story. Drink your water, because Drea had to save Moni with a trip to the emergency room. The two make it clear that aside from their toxic ways, they are still taking boyfriend applications. They the end the episode by going over relationship closure and how to achieve it.

00:00 Updates / Threads

02:55 Casual hookups are back?

14:30 Moni almost died

19:00 Boyfriend applications

24:30 Relationship closure

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On Ep. 27 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte finally have their first guest on! @delacruz619 is finally giving you the guy’s perspective when it comes to dating and other topics. Guest Anthony shares his experiences with losing a parent, long distance relationships, and dating a virgin. Moni and Drea challenge some points Anthony makes regarding his views and perceptions of women in the dating world today.

00:00 Intro / About guest Anthony De La Cruz

12:10 Less attractive people cheat more

18:55 Asking your partner to change

28:30 Losing a parent / Grieving with a S.O.

50:25 Benefits of long distance relationships

01:02:50 Loving someone without physical intimacy

01:12:40 Do women actually want vulnerable men?

01:31:50 Problem with f*cking on the first date

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On Ep. 26 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte cover many topics regarding exes and social media. Have you ever had an ex follow you on social media after their new relationship didn’t work out? Does it bother you if your close friends and family still follow any of your exes? The two discuss their opinions and experiences. Have you ever wanted to pursue your ex’s friend post breakup? Moni and Drea get a little toxic by rehashing some of their past. On a serious note, better eye contact with others may improve your relationships, so listen up! Lastly, what do you say when your friend’s new girl asks if you guys have ever hooked up

00:00 Updates / Exes always come back

10:35 Friends & family following your exes

20:05 Don’t follow my f*ck buddy

30:20 Hooking up with your ex’s friends

49:40 Importance of eye contact

01:05:20 His new girl asked if we’ve hooked up

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On Ep. 25 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk about foot fetishes and the possible theories as to why they exist. They then open up about some of their own kinks and odd turn on’s in the bedroom. Men, need help with your dating app profile? Moni and Drea discuss profile DONT’s when it comes to putting yourself on the dating market. Lastly, a viewer/listener asks them to name some immediate “icks” when it comes to dating men.

00:00 Updates

03:50 Foot fetishes & possible theories

21:40 Kinks & weird turn on’s

39:10 Dating apps & profile DONT’s

54:40 Immediate “icks” for men

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On Ep. 24 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how we all need to normalize doing things alone. Why is it a big deal for someone to go to the movies alone? They also cover how important it is to be able to be on your own without a significant other. Ever heard of relationship hopping? The two open up about personal experiences and what they have learned from them.

00:00 Updates / Europe trip

18:15 Normalize doing things alone

34:45 Being alone isn’t so bad

47:30 Relationship hopping

54:20 Letting them in when you’re lonely

01:03:50 Seeking your love language

01:16:00 Bad sex or no sex

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On Ep. 23 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go straight into the episode discussing whether or not a man should be paying for a woman. Should a man pay on dates or should you split the bill? How does paying for things change when you’re in an exclusive relationship? The two go over their experiences and opinions on these topics. They then address whether money matters in a relationship. Lastly, Moni and Drea provide some advice on how to tell your man you don’t like the gifts he gives you.

00:00 Updates / Last prerecorded episode

03:40 Who should pay when dating?

16:10 Paying in exclusive relationships

25:35 Does money matter?

32:05 Telling him I don’t like his gifts

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On Ep. 22 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte give all you ladies the information you need to have a successful sleepover with a man. They take it back to the first time they slept with a guy, and the insecurities that came with it. The two give you a list of things to bring to the sleepover, along with some dos and don’ts. How do you feel about period sex? Well, Moni and Drea go into their experiences and the best way to execute. Lastly, they discuss the best way to make the first move with a girl at the bar.

00:00 Updates

04:15 Insecurities about sleepovers

16:20 What to bring to the sleepover

24:05 Make the sleepover successful

31:20 Period sex need to know

41:45 How to talk to a girl at the bar

Find them on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

On Ep. 21 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss whether or not it’s okay to change for your significant other. What is healthy and what is unhealthy? How important are boundaries in a relationship? The two open up about things they have changed about themselves in past relationships, and things they will not change in the future. Moni and Drea also talk about things men have said about their physical appearance that have stuck with them. Men - Don’t know what to do for a first date because you don’t know her intentions? Listen up!

00:00 Updates / Lovers & Friends recap

15:00 Regretting changing for your S.O.

25:20 Comments on appearance cut deep

35:55 Willingness to change for your S.O.

47:15 Boundaries to avoid losing yourself

01:06:28 Planning a first date - Place, $

Find them on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !