Flings N' Things

On Ep. 20 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte address whether or not looks matter. Is physical attraction just as important as personality? Both talk about their typical types on paper and what qualities they look for in a man. Do you have a checklist that you use when you’re dating? How important is money? Moni and Drea discuss these topics and more. Lastly, the two explain how many times is too many to cancel on someone.

00:00 Updates

04:00 I have a type

07:30 Looks do matter

23:25 Important qualities in a man

43:20 Emotional intelligence is sexy

54:40 Canceling plans/dates

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On Ep. 19 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte open the episode talking about the need for boob jobs. Then the two address the throat cancer epidemic going on and whether or not they require condoms for oral sex. Then you don’t want to miss the next topic - guys and butt stuff. No need to elaborate more. Lastly, a viewer writes in asking how to get over someone they never really dated.

00:00 Updates & boob jobs

13:55 Condoms & the throat cancer epidemic

27:00 Oral sex is more intimate

40:00 Guys & butt stuff

53:15 How to get over a situationship

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On Ep. 18 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte debate on whether you can stay friends with someone you have slept with once you enter a relationship. Things get a little heated, and they want to know what you think. Then this topic leads them to discuss their opinions about being friends with your ex. Have you ever went back for bad sex? Moni has. Then Drea starts to rethink all her encounters. What actually constitutes bad sex? Awkwardness or dick size? Lastly, the two end the episode responding to someone's question regarding trapping their boyfriend.

00:00 Updates/OF

08:45 Being friends with someone you've slept with

26:40 Can you be friends with an ex?

34:45 Going back for bad sex

44:40 Should I trap my bf?

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On Ep. 17 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go into the discussion around talking to your parents about having sex. They share their personal experiences and how it affected them during their teenage years. The two open up about how their parents found out they lost their virginity, and the first time they got on birth control. Moni and Drea stress how you should accept the fact that your kids will have sex, so open communication is critical. They even touch on the importance of discussing childrearing while dating. Lastly, they do not kink shame here! If masturbating in your car turns you on, then so be it!

00:00 Talking to your parents about sex

22:20 First time getting on birth control

28:10 Parents finding out you're having sex

45:40 Being proactive about sex with your kids

53:30 Discussing childrearing while dating

58:00 Masturbating in the car

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On Ep. 16 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte celebrate 420 by smoking on the pod for the first time ever. The episode starts off with Moni reviewing some legislation around cannabis, while Drea rolls a blunt and shares her little secret. Moni and Drea play some smoking games that you do not want to miss, as they share random stories about their experiences getting high over the years. Aside from the ugly laughs, distracting munchies, and blonde moments, you get a little taste of what it would be like to engage in a smoking sesh with Moni and Drea. Apologies in advance for any obnoxious moments that may occur.

00:00 Intro/Cannabis legislation talk

14:20 First time getting high

19:35 Parents finding out you smoke

28:25 Using men to get high

34:20 Smoking game shenanigans

1:12:10 Lying to guys about their size

1:15:20 High sex or drunk sex

1:20:38 Craziest experience getting high

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On Ep. 15 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go into the importance of foreplay in the bedroom and how a lot of men tend to skip that part during a hookup. Foreplay isn’t just everything else BUT sex. The two also touch on the orgasm gap yet again, with a focus on oral sex. Have you ever started dating someone who always shit talks their ex? It may be a red flag according to Moni. They both admit to questioning why they get turned on by girl on girl interactions on the screen. Lastly, Moni and Drea make it clear that men need to stop expecting head and both agree that it’s a turn off. This week’s Out With the Old, In With the New advice gets a little freaky and definitely challenges Drea’s morals.

00:00 Updates

14:40 Is shit talking an ex a red flag?

23:00 More foreplay in the bedroom

34:35 Orgasm gap with oral sex

43:55 Lesbian porn turns me on

52:10 Men, stop expecting head

01:05:15 The Stepdad wants me

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On Ep. 14 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go into the episode pointing out how nowadays, insecurities are more openly expressed compared to before. Why is that? They then dive right in to discussing their insecurities with body image.Drea explains how her insecurities have been dismissed because her body structure is more on the thinner side. While on the other hand, Moni struggles with her insecurities about being on the heavier side so the two elaborate on those differences. They touch on dating app profiles and how photos vs reality can cause anxiety when it's time to meet up. Beauty standards differ amongst different cultures, and Moni explains how feeling accepted by one and not another may have influenced what her "type" is. Both stress the importance of self-love and that only you know what is best for yourself. The two then open up about their personal insecurities in the bedroom, which gets pretty vulnerable. Moni and Drea end the episode enforcing the concept of "if he wanted to, he would" when it comes to making the effort to meet up in person after matching on a dating app.

00:00 Updates

09:30 Social media, mental health, & insecurities

21:05 Stop shaming people's insecurities

29:35 Dating app photos vs reality

33:05 Cultural differences in beauty standards

37:05 Making changes to love yourself

46:30 Insecurities in the bedroom

01:07:40 Matching & meeting up in person

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On Ep. 13 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte dive right into the episode’s topic of stalking. The two give their opinion on watching people’s stories who you do not follow. They discuss why people stalk their exes, and how women tend to stalk on social media more than men. Moni and Drea elaborate on some crazy social media stalking experiences and how random they were. They then make it clear that you shouldn’t show up at people’s homes unannounced, especially if you are not in a relationship with them. Grab your popcorn for these stories! Drea provides a PSA about sending texts once someone blocks you (iPhones only), and Moni makes it clear that liking stories means you have the permission to slide in those DMs.

01:00 Watching stories, but not following

14:00 Women stalk socials more than men

17:55 Craziest social media stalking experience

24:05 Exes showing up unannounced

48:35 Sending txts after being blocked

58:20 Liking stories means slide in

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On Ep. 12 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte open the episode discussing Instagram accounts for pets and children. Drea has some regrets after a night out, which sparks the conversation around whether drunk calling your ex means anything. Do you ever feel awkward during sex? Well both of them do, so they explain under what circumstances and why. The two also discuss how women can be delusional when it comes to dating and seeing things for what they really are. Then Drea explains how not having sex on the first date has had a positive impact on her recent dating experiences. Men are planning dates and texting back the day after. Moni later recaps her baecation and the sexy porno she made, highlighting how pretty her butthole is. Strip clubs and dollar bills, I still got more money! The dynamic duo touch on whether or not women should let their man go to the strip club. The debate ends with a little taste of lesbehonest. The last topic gets very emotional, as deadbeat boyfriends hit home for Drea.

02:35 Instagram accounts for pets & children

07:40 Drunk calling your ex

10:40 Awkward during sex

15:40 Women are delusional

22:00 No sex on the first date

28:15 Men planning dates

36:00 Pornos & pretty buttholes

44:05 Letting your man go to the strip club

1:09:30 Deadbeat boyfriends

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On Ep. 11 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte start the episode by reminiscing in their early Papas & Beer Rosarito days and recapping their first podcast feature on @LaFamiliaPodcast, Ep. 99! They then express their thoughts on CA Governor Newsom wanting to stop doing business with Walgreens due to their ban of the abortion pill in 20 other states. The two spend most of their time answering many questions regarding relationships and social media. Are you okay with your significant other liking and commenting on photos of the opposite sex? What about your significant other following people they used to sleep with? Do you follow your exes? Moni and Drea use their own experiences to explain their different views on these topics. Lastly, they look back and discuss how their first ever orgasm was a surprise. All the orgasms they thought they had beforehand were not real..

01:05 Updates - Papas&Beer, vivid dreaming

11:05 First podcast feature on @LaFamiliaPodcast

14:05 Walgreens & the abortion pill

20:15 Relationships & social media

54:30 My first orgasm

Find them on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !