On Ep. 14 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go into the episode pointing out how nowadays, insecurities are more openly expressed compared to before. Why is that? They then dive right in to discussing their insecurities with body image.Drea explains how her insecurities have been dismissed because her body structure is more on the thinner side. While on the other hand, Moni struggles with her insecurities about being on the heavier side so the two elaborate on those differences. They touch on dating app profiles and how photos vs reality can cause anxiety when it's time to meet up. Beauty standards differ amongst different cultures, and Moni explains how feeling accepted by one and not another may have influenced what her "type" is. Both stress the importance of self-love and that only you know what is best for yourself. The two then open up about their personal insecurities in the bedroom, which gets pretty vulnerable. Moni and Drea end the episode enforcing the concept of "if he wanted to, he would" when it comes to making the effort to meet up in person after matching on a dating app.

00:00 Updates

09:30 Social media, mental health, & insecurities

21:05 Stop shaming people's insecurities

29:35 Dating app photos vs reality

33:05 Cultural differences in beauty standards

37:05 Making changes to love yourself

46:30 Insecurities in the bedroom

01:07:40 Matching & meeting up in person

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