Flings N' Things

On Ep. 90 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses whether or not you owe it to someone that you're "dating" to let them know you went on another date. How serious does the "dating" need to be? Lastly, she gives advice on handling a situation in which you get pregnant after dating someone for only 4 months.

00:00 Updates

07:05 Telling them I went on a date

15:40 How do I tell him I'm pregnant

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On Ep. 89 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro updates you guys on her life and talks about how she finally revealed her boyfriend's face. Today's topic is do nice guys finish last? What do you guys think? Lastly, this week's advice question leaves Moni a little confused, so hopefully the Flinger writes back in.

00:00 Updates

08:45 Do nice guys finish last?

26:45 Confusing advice segment

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On Ep. 88 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro interviews @sandiegoking619 from @allrawnocondom for PART 2! This week Matthew gives his opinion on common dating topics such as cheating, faking orgasms, body count, making the first move, and having high standards when it comes to the bedroom. Listen up ladies and gentlemen, because Matthew provides some key advice that may help you navigate your current or future relationships.

00:00 Intro

05:50 Why do men cheat?

19:20 Men fake orgasms too

27:50 Does body count matter?

38:50 Confidence gets you laid

54:00 My bf is addicted to videogames

Follow guest Matthew on Instagram @sandiegoking619 and follow his podcast that will be relaunching at the end of November @allrawnocondom !

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

On Ep. 87 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro interviews @sandiegoking619 from @allrawnocondom about where he comes from and how he started his own podcast. Matthew tells us some crazy stories and gives us a preview of his dating history. Stay tuned because we are just getting the conversation started! Part 2 drops next Tuesday. Matthew will be discussing all things dating and controversy from the man's perspective.

00:00 Who is @allrawnocondom

18:00 Accidentally getting his ass ate

27:45 Dating advice / Growing up in SD

49:10 Partner vs. spouse

Follow guest Matthew on Instagram @sandiegoking619 and follow his podcast that will be relaunching at the end of November @allrawnocondom !

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

On Ep. 86 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro talks how keeping her relationship more private has her mom feeling like she's moving too fast. Dating someone out of state is a different experience than dating someone where all of your friends and family live. Moni also discusses how middle-aged may actually be 38 years old and what that means for those of use approaching our 30's. If your girlfriend is picky, and you don't know what to get her, listen up!

00:00 Updates/Call Her Daddy

09:10 Dating someone out of state

22:45 Middle-aged is actually 38

32:10 Idk what to get her

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On Ep. 85 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how crossing boundaries is toxic, even if you feel like you have a good reason to. Is invading your partner's privacy okay if you're married and live together? Moni addresses ways in which you can approach your partner in a healthier way when you feel insecure or need reassurance. For example, if you feel the need to look at your partner's phone.

00:00 Updates/Planning dates

11:40 Invading privacy and boundaries

37:40 Oral and cotton mouth

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On Ep. 84 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how being too focused on setting a timeline for your life can cause you to settle for less. She explains how it is beneficial to set goals for yourself, but it is also important to be mindful whether those goals will compromise your relationships with others. How long is too long to wait for a marriage proposal? Moni gives some advice to fellow Flinger about this topic.

00:00 Updates

13:50 Don't prioritize the timeline

30:10 Asking for the proposal

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On Ep. 83 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings back her childhood best friend @alynn.andersen to discuss her wedding planning experience. Alynn talks about the societal pressure to get married and to have a traditional wedding. She explains why she chose to do things the unorthodox way. Stressing about who to invite to your wedding? Listen up because Alynn provides good advice on her personal experience. Lastly, the two answer questions from fellow Flingers - exclusivity without a title, dealing with someone out of your league, and trashy baby daddies.

00:00 Societal pressure to get married

30:00 Inviting people to the wedding

36:35 Exclusivity, out of my league, baby daddies

Follow guest Alynn on Instagram @alynn.andersen !

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !

On Ep. 82 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how important it is to create and maintain a safe space for you and your partner to have uncomfortable conversations. Are you able to open up about your past traumas or experiences? If you're unhappy, do you feel comfortable addressing your concerns? Can you be unapologetically yourself? If you do not feel safe enough to do these things, you may need to reevaluate the relationship you're in. Lastly, Moni gives some advice to a fellow Flinger about addressing the taste of her boyfriend's cum.

00:00 Updates

03:10 Safety in relationships

12:55 Creating the safe place

35:20 My bf's cum tastes bad

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On Ep. 81 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro answers a variety of questions regarding what constitutes cheating. Having an OnlyFans? Watching porn? Going to the strip club? She also answers whether or not a guy should ask you formally to be his girlfriend and if proposing without a ring is okay. Do you care if your significant other follows their ex? And have you had your ass ate yet? Listen up and find out.

00:00 Updates

09:30 OF, porn, strip clubs are cheating?

25:40 Proposing, following exes, ass play

40:00 I emotionally cheated, what now?

Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !