 In this replay of our landmark 100th episode, Ar Blia is a listener-turned-guest who has been untangling early experiences of trauma, limiting cultural beliefs, and confusing desires to first explore and then advocate for her own pleasure. Even within the constricts of a conservative community, she has been able to find adventure, find herself, and find a partner who truly works for her. Ar Blia is a 27-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as straight, monogamous, Asian Hmong American, and partnered with her boyfriend of five years. She describes her body as average (though by white American standards many of us would probably consider her petite.) Coaching with Leah: www.leahcarey.com/coaching/ Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes:  www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/ar-blia-replay

I want to be pushed against the wall - Ar Blia

Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.

Sex and Intimacy Coach Leah Carey hosts the type of conversations you usually only have with your best girlfriend late at night over a bottle of wine. Leah interviews people (including people brought up as little girls plus transgender women) of all sizes, shapes, ages, orientations, relationship structures, kink levels, races, religions, cultural backgrounds, and more.

The conversations on Good Girls Talk About Sex are warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental. You are likely to hear stories that reflect your own experiences and let you know that you're not alone. You're also likely to hear stories that broaden your ideas about what is "normal" and introduce you to exciting new experiences!

You will probably LOVE this show if:
* You crave late-night conversations with friends about sex
* You've ever wondered if your sexual needs, desires, or fantasies are "normal"
* You're curious about sex but don't have anyone in your life to talk about it with

You will probably NOT LIKE this show if:
* You are uncomfortable hearing people talk about sex and their bodies in frank terms
* You are uncomfortable with swearing and/or raw displays of emotion
* You believe sex should only happen between a man and a woman within the confines of marriage

Most guests appear anonymously so they're free to tell the good, the bad, and the titillating! These conversations are explicit but never salacious.

Society & Culture

Personal Journals

History

Philosophy

Places & Travel

Sexuality

Health

Relationships

Health & Fitness

Some people swear by Dear Abby, others swear at Dear Abby. Today we look at some of Dear Abby's terrible advice. PLUS: Stay until the end to hear an important announcement about the podcast going on hiatus so Leah can take a well-deserved rest.   Become a client: www.leahcarey.com/coaching Support Leah's work: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full episode show notes: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/go-to-bed-angry  

Never go to bed angry & other terrible advice

In this Pop Culture Pillow Talk, I talk with pop culture critic Kristen Meinzer about two great movies:  Joy Ride Plan B  You can find Kristen at:  www.kristenmeinzer.com How To Be Fine podcast The Daily Fail podcast Twitter Instagram Threads    Become a client: www.leahcarey.com/coaching Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes:  www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/red-flags-sophilia

Road Trips and Sex Without Shame

Plan B - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt13172796 Joy Ride - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt15268244   Become a client: www.leahcarey.com/coaching Apply for a free coaching session: www.goodgirlstalk.com/session  Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex

Bonus quickie

In this coaching episode, Sophilia asks: why does she keep ending up in relationships where things don’t feel right, and the entire weight of making it better falls on her? Leah works with Sophilia to:  understand the red flags for this type of relationship, the communication skills that will help screen them out, rethink her own experience of being turned on.  Sophilia is a 39-year-old, cisgender woman. She describes herself as queer, single, and multi-racial with a white mother and Black father. In the past she’s been in monogamous relationships, but currently prefers the idea of being in open relationships. She describes her body as curvy and muscular. Leah offers valuable insights and tools to help Sophilia and all listeners to screen potential partners. Find the turn-on cycle explanation here: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/turn-on-cycles/   Become a client: www.leahcarey.com/coaching Apply for a free coaching session: www.goodgirlstalk.com/session  Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes:  www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/red-flags-sophilia  

Find the red flags! - Coaching Sophilia

Last year I found myself in the middle of a shitstorm for daring to expose a community leader's abusive behavior. Today I tell the whole story. The backlash was immediate and intense, with DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender) tactics used to paint me as the problem. Suddenly, I was not just standing as a representative of this man’s abuse, but also receiving harassment and ostracization from those I once considered my community. Sharing this story isn't just about telling you what’s going on; it's about shining a light on the dark corners of abuse and systemic failure. It's a call to action for change, support, and understanding for those who have had their voices silenced. ALSO: I clarify my pricing structure for coaching and how I serve people with financial challenges.   BEYOND PERMISSION classes: www.beyondpermission.com Apply for a free coaching session: www.goodgirlstalk.com/session  Become a client: www.leahcarey.com/coaching Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex Full show notes:  www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/consent-darvo

I want to be pushed against the wall - Ar Blia

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