Yes, I want to be priority for you, but I don’t want you to be my solely focus in life. Our relationship will only work if we both fulfill our own ambitions and dreams and still dream some of them together.

And YES, I want to be with you AND we both enjoy giving  time and presence.

I know how you get easily busy with things. And for me to thrive, I really want you to be present with me when you are with me.

Time and presence is priority to make this relationship work.

I don’t want to wait for you to see if you’re going to be able to find time within your busy-ness. It’s important that I know,  I am your priority because you are mine.  That’s why we are together.

I don’t want to prove to you that I’m worth it.

….nor do I want to ask you for this “worthiness”. I can only feel worthy myself.

We are not here in this world to prove each others’ worth, even so the world runs on neediness in relationships.

I want to be with you but I do not want to live up to your expectations…

…. nor do I want you to live up to mine.

I don’t want to be with you out of neediness for love.

I want to be with you out of my pure ability to truly love myself

What I won’t do is:

I won’t chase after you.

I do not want to spend time being afraid you might walk away anytime, but being fully trusting.......