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Identity, Grit & Starting Again with Stacey Denyer
In this episode of The Great Guns Podcast, James sits down with Stacey Denyer, a 19-year RAF veteran, and Invictus Games medallist, to talk honestly about identity, resilience, and what happens when the structure of military life disappears.
Stacey shares her journey through military service, competitive sport, MS, and transition — including the mental and emotional challenge of stepping away from the uniform while still chasing purpose, performance, and belonging.
This is a grounded, thoughtful conversation about discipline without structure, finding identity beyond rank, and why resilience isn’t about being unbreakable — it’s about adapting, again and again.
Sound Bites- “The uniform gives you an identity — when it goes, you have to rebuild one.”
- “Transition isn’t just about a job, it’s about who you are.”
- “Sport gave me something to aim at when everything else felt uncertain.”
- You don’t have to have it all figured out straight away.”
- “Be patient with yourself — transition takes time.”
- “Ask for help earlier than you think you need it.”
Key Takeaways
- The uniform gives you identity — losing it can feel disorientating. Transition isn’t just logistical; it’s deeply personal.
- Resilience isn’t about toughness — it’s about adaptability. Being able to reset, pivot, and keep moving forward matters more than grit alone.
- Structure disappears fast in civilian life. You need to build your own routines, goals, and accountability.
- Sport and challenge can be powerful tools — but not cures. They help, but they don’t replace reflection and support.
- Comparison is dangerous during transition. Your journey doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s.
- Purpose doesn’t arrive fully formed. It’s built through action, curiosity, and patience.
- You’re still the same person — just in a different environment. The skills from service don’t disappear, they just need translating.
Connect with Stacey
Blog
Female Veterans' Transformation Programme
#Veterans #MilitaryTransition #Resilience #Identity #GreatGunsPodcast
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By Great GunsIn this episode of The Great Guns Podcast, James sits down with Stacey Denyer, a 19-year RAF veteran, and Invictus Games medallist, to talk honestly about identity, resilience, and what happens when the structure of military life disappears.
Stacey shares her journey through military service, competitive sport, MS, and transition — including the mental and emotional challenge of stepping away from the uniform while still chasing purpose, performance, and belonging.
This is a grounded, thoughtful conversation about discipline without structure, finding identity beyond rank, and why resilience isn’t about being unbreakable — it’s about adapting, again and again.
Sound Bites- “The uniform gives you an identity — when it goes, you have to rebuild one.”
- “Transition isn’t just about a job, it’s about who you are.”
- “Sport gave me something to aim at when everything else felt uncertain.”
- You don’t have to have it all figured out straight away.”
- “Be patient with yourself — transition takes time.”
- “Ask for help earlier than you think you need it.”
Key Takeaways
- The uniform gives you identity — losing it can feel disorientating. Transition isn’t just logistical; it’s deeply personal.
- Resilience isn’t about toughness — it’s about adaptability. Being able to reset, pivot, and keep moving forward matters more than grit alone.
- Structure disappears fast in civilian life. You need to build your own routines, goals, and accountability.
- Sport and challenge can be powerful tools — but not cures. They help, but they don’t replace reflection and support.
- Comparison is dangerous during transition. Your journey doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s.
- Purpose doesn’t arrive fully formed. It’s built through action, curiosity, and patience.
- You’re still the same person — just in a different environment. The skills from service don’t disappear, they just need translating.
Connect with Stacey
Blog
Female Veterans' Transformation Programme
#Veterans #MilitaryTransition #Resilience #Identity #GreatGunsPodcast