A lot of people say they’re single by choice — but what if that mindset is quietly keeping you stuck in the same dating cycle? If dating feels exhausting, disappointing, or like it never quite works out no matter how much advice you consume, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I break down the critical difference between being single by choice and being intentionally single — on purpose, with purpose, and why one protects you while the other actually changes you. You’ll learn why blame and avoidance feel comforting but drain your power, how responsibility (your ability to respond) becomes the gateway to real growth, and what it actually looks like to prepare for a healthy relationship instead of just waiting for one. If you’re ready to stop repeating what hasn’t worked and start becoming the kind of partner and presence you want to see more of in dating, your first step is clarity. You can book a Dating Diagnosis & Success Session to understand exactly what’s been blocking your results and what to work on next, and download my Dating Advice Discernment Guide to stop following advice that’s sabotaging your chances at love.