A lot of people say they’re single by choice — but what if that mindset is quietly keeping you stuck in the same dating cycle? If dating feels exhausting, disappointing, or like it never quite works out no matter how much advice you consume, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I break down the critical difference between being single by choice and being intentionally single — on purpose, with purpose, and why one protects you while the other actually changes you. You’ll learn why blame and avoidance feel comforting but drain your power, how responsibility (your ability to respond) becomes the gateway to real growth, and what it actually looks like to prepare for a healthy relationship instead of just waiting for one. If you’re ready to stop repeating what hasn’t worked and start becoming the kind of partner and presence you want to see more of in dating, your first step is clarity. You can book a Dating Diagnosis & Success Session to understand exactly what’s been blocking your results and what to work on next, and download my Dating Advice Discernment Guide to stop following advice that’s sabotaging your chances at love.

You’re not still single because you’re doing dating wrong — you might be under the influence of bad dating advice. Advice that sounds confident and empowering, but quietly trains you to stay guarded instead of connected. We live in a time where anyone with a platform can position themselves as a dating expert, and over time, we absorb beliefs about love, men, women, and relationships without realizing how deeply they shape what we expect, what we tolerate, and how emotionally available we’re able to be. That’s how so many people end up doing “everything right” in dating and still feeling stuck, exhausted, or disconnected — not because they’re broken, but because the advice they’ve been following was designed to help them protect themselves, not prepare for love. In this episode, we break down how influence actually works, why certain dating advice feels true even when it’s costing you connection, and how to discern whether the voices you’re listening to are expanding you or quietly keeping you stuck. 

If this resonates, download the free Dating Advice Discernment Guide to do an honest advice audit, and if you’re ready to find and keep a healthy relationship this year 100% dating app free, you can book a consultation with me here.

I look forward to continuing to support you!

If early dating feels emotionally exhausting — like every pause, delay, or moment of uncertainty sends you spiraling — this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we talk about why control can start to feel safer than love, especially if your past has taught you that uncertainty usually comes before disappointment. You’ll learn how seeking clarity, reassurance, or certainty can look like emotional maturity — while quietly keeping you stuck in familiar patterns that never lead to the relationship you want. We unpack why “just trusting” doesn’t work, how meaning gets assigned to dating situations without you realizing it, and what actually has to shift so dating doesn’t feel like something that keeps happening to you.

If this episode hit close to home and you’re wondering what’s really keeping you single, take the Why You’re Really Still Single Quiz. It will help you uncover the specific dynamic shaping how you show up in dating — and what needs attention next.

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re doing everything “right” but still ending up heartbroken, anxious, or stuck in almost-relationships, you need this episode. The real reason love feels so hard for you isn’t your standards, your past, or your personality — it’s the identity you’ve unknowingly been living in. An identity shaped from old pain, old experiences, and old survival strategies that your heart hasn’t outgrown yet. 

In this episode, I show you how these hidden identities form, how they choose your partners for you, why they make you mistake chaos for chemistry, and how to begin shifting into a healthier identity that finally supports the love you want.

👉 Want clarity on which identity YOU’VE been dating from? Take the “Why You’re Really Still Single” Quiz — it reveals the exact identity keeping you single.

If you’ve ever felt that tight, sinking feeling in your stomach the moment you start caring about someone — or if you avoid dating altogether because the emotional risk feels too high — this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale.

In this week’s conversation, we’re breaking down The Hope Hangover:
that emotional crash you experience when you let yourself believe in possibility… and then things don’t unfold the way you imagined.

You’ll learn:

✨ why hoping feels so risky for you
 ✨ how your nervous system is protecting you in ways that block connection
 ✨ why disappointment hits you harder than it “should”
 ✨ how avoiding this part of dating keeps you single
 ✨ and the love-building skill that helps you handle the Hope Hangover without shutting down

By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to tend to yourself in the moments that used to make you spiral — and how to stay emotionally open long enough for real, healthy love to actually find you.

If you’re ready to stop repeating the same cycle and want personalized guidance in your dating life, book a consultation to explore working together.
We’ll look at what’s blocking you, what’s possible for you, and whether my coaching and matchmaking support is the right fit.

👉 Book your consultation here👈🏽

Dating hasn’t stopped working for you because you’re doing something wrong—it’s because your brain is stuck replaying old experiences. In this episode, we talk about how one little word, “probably,” keeps you expecting disappointment and repeating the same dating cycles. You’ll hear why your mind does this, how it’s really just trying to keep you safe, and what to do instead so you can open up to something new. I’ll walk you through six simple steps to shift from fear and frustration to hope and possibility—so love can finally find you.

Ready to find and keep a healthy relationship this year—100% dating app free?✨ [Use the link to sign up for your consult today.]✨