If you’re tired of feeling like you’re doing everything “right” but still ending up heartbroken, anxious, or stuck in almost-relationships, you need this episode. The real reason love feels so hard for you isn’t your standards, your past, or your personality — it’s the identity you’ve unknowingly been living in. An identity shaped from old pain, old experiences, and old survival strategies that your heart hasn’t outgrown yet. 

In this episode, I show you how these hidden identities form, how they choose your partners for you, why they make you mistake chaos for chemistry, and how to begin shifting into a healthier identity that finally supports the love you want.

👉 Want clarity on which identity YOU’VE been dating from? Take the “Why You’re Really Still Single” Quiz — it reveals the exact identity keeping you single.