None of us want to believe that our mother was a side chick but 9 times out of ten if you heard her playing this song over and over, she was caught up in some nonsense. 

But there's more to the story.  Women like this typically lose out on the man they love by playing it too cool.  So you see, this is less about being a side chick and more about playing the cool fool.

Let's Go Behind The Lyrics!