Things that grandparents, hubby, friends, strangers and you do with the 'best intentions' that sometimes have the opposite effect.
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Tips for successful 'best intentions'
* Read the 'scene' before swooping in
* Ask 'what can I do to help?'
* Mama knows best, don't ask just do!
* Tell people clearly what you need (less presents for the kids, short visit…)
* See the humour in it and appreciate the effort
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