Love On Command

If You Don’t Know Who You Are, You’ll Attract the Wrong Man—Every Time


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Ma'am… if you don’t know who you are, you’re going to attract love from the lowest version of your story—your trauma, your insecurity, your broken expectations. And then you wonder why the connection drains you.

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the truth most women were never taught: men are not all the same—and they’re not all in the same stage. Some are stuck in their Knight phase, chasing fun with no vision. Others are Princes, ready to build—but only with the right kind of woman. And then there are Kings… the ones who give, lead, and provide from a place of purpose and healed masculine energy.

I’ll walk you through:

  • Why asking for “the bare minimum” is costing you everything

  • The energetic mistake women make when choosing partners

  • The difference between a man who’s ready and a man who’s comfortable

  • How your nervous system might still be wired for men who keep you guessing

  • What it really takes to attract a man who wants to give you the castle, not just visit yours

If you're tired of dating men who say all the right things but show up with the wrong energy… this is the conversation your heart has been waiting for.

Press play—and let’s recalibrate your standards, your energy, and your love life.

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Love On CommandBy Shay Levister

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