We want to go from where we start now to the person we want to be who is in command of their lives and feels successful and fulfilled.

Transformation is a process of personal development to create new skills. 

A paradigm is our world view shaped by our values, beliefs, and practices. It is the framework in which we operate and make decisions. 

You can change your paradigm and create a whole new future. Maybe things are not working to plan because you are not in the optimal framework and don't perceive things correctly. 

You can wind up on the different side of the river with a more productive outlook.