In this episode of TraumaTies, Bridgette Stumpf and Lindsey Silverberg explore how behavior is shaped by environment, experience, and survival. Through famous studies on addiction, learned helplessness, and hope, they challenge the idea that behaviors like avoidance, substance use, or shutting down are signs of weakness. Instead, they ask a different question: What purpose did this behavior once serve?

• Many behaviors make sense when viewed through the lens of survival.
• Addiction is often connected to isolation, suffering, and unmet needs.
• Change happens when people experience safety, connection, and agency.
• Hope is more than a feeling—it can be cultivated through relationships and action.
• Sometimes the most powerful form of support is simply showing up.

• Dr. Gabor Maté and The Myth of Normal
• Bruce Alexander’s Rat Park research
• Research on learned helplessness and agency
• Hope science and hope mapping

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