I'll Admit with Jessica Parr

Kristyna has been in her dream life in San Diego for exactly one week. Six months ago she was lying in the dark putting her toddler to bed when one question landed & wouldn't leave: why the fuck not? Not after retirement. Not after the kids are grown. Not after everyone she thought she owed her life to was done with it. Now.

The first thing she had to bury was "realistic." According to who? The second was the version of her that needed every answer before she'd say the thing out loud. She told me in the spring, if I say this I actually have to do it. I said yes, that's the point. She posted it publicly & cried for a long time after, because she knew what was coming: the goodbyes, the triggered people, the "are you going to be okay" projections from everyone around her.

We get into why claiming it publicly is the mechanism (not the reward for having it figured out), why the fear never leaves & the decision still has to be different, the first career move where the worst case happened & she lived in a tent for a week, what the hard actually looks like one week into the dream (a crash out at 9am, a different reality by 11:30), & the orange cat. She asked for a sign, decided an orange cat would be it, & then started seeing them everywhere. Her dad told her not to talk about it on the internet. She's going to talk about it until the cows come home.

Kristyna is a spotlight speaker at Nice Girl Funeral this October.

Sabrina Greer wanted to be a writer her whole life. Pregnant with her third son, she got the publishing deal. Then the manuscript came back rewritten .. too dark, too dramatic, it called out an industry, here's our version. When she said no, she found out that signing the deal meant she no longer owned the rights to her own story. She self-published it anyway & sold about 18 copies.

She could have made that mean something about her. Instead it became Blended Publishing, her own trademarked modality & an author-centric house built so women keep their intellectual property & their actual voice. The books she publishes now are the ones other publishers shush: assault, addiction, disordered eating, the things that are most of our stories as women.

We get into why nice is a match for minimum wage, why people-pleasing is you being out of integrity (not kind), why at least half of any room will disagree with you once you're visible & that's the job, & my own version of this .. the pushback I got on NGF itself last year & how hard it was to get a single article published without it being watered down into nothing.

Sabrina is facilitating the VIP day at Nice Girl Funeral on the Friday. A tiny handful of VIP spots are left. GET YOUR TICKET NOW.

Victoria Pippo built a multi-million dollar business over six & a half years pioneering sovereign energy healing. This year she dug up the part of herself she'd shelved to do it: eighteen years of training as a performer, on stages since she was seven. And it changed what she thinks the real conversation in this industry is.

A lot of women want to be on stages. Most of them aren't good enough to be on one yet. Everybody has something to say in 2026 & that's no longer enough. Victoria has watched women pay for visibility, get the behind-the-scenes camera on them, & in her words .. they fucking suck. Wanting it isn't a skill. Deserving it isn't a skill.

We get into why she believes we are all actors & the only question is whether you're integrating every part of yourself or performing a version that doesn't exist, why "be yourself in every room" was always too small (you're nine people & that's the point), why she refuses the idea of an identity shift or being "in the void," & her three kinds of stars: the ones that shine, the ones that shoot, & the ones that fall.

Most of what you see in coaching is the shooting kind.

Victoria is facilitating the Ascension Mastermind day at Nice Girl Funeral on the Thursday.

Amy went live with me for the NGF live-a-thon & we went straight into the heaviest funeral she's had this year. She retired Align by Design, opened a 50/50 company with someone else in the industry, & then left it. Not because of one thing. Because of a pattern she'd been running everywhere: the second somebody else can't handle it, she takes over. At home, in the business, with the partner who kept dropping the ball & asking for grace. Her words: I need some fucking grace too.

The line she had to bury was "if there's an end date, it's not that bad." It was that bad. And the question she had to answer after was whether she was willing to be the villain in the story to talk about it honestly.

I've had the same partnership. I ignored the same flag. We get into why the women who do the biggest things are the ones who quietly overcompensate for everyone, why your biggest potential gets dimmed before you even say it out loud (because you already know who it'll upset), whether you can stay ambitious & love money while you're going through something heavy, & the identity most of us are not ready to kill .. being the one who does it all herself.

Amy is on the VIP day at Nice Girl Funeral.

She has a speaker code if you want in. A handful of VIP spaces remaining.

Mary Morgan spoke at the first Nice Girl Funeral (her notes ended up in a toilet, which was on brand) & she's coming back this October. Before the first one even existed she was the person I called to figure out what this thing could actually be.

This conversation is about the move almost nobody at a certain level of success makes. Mary hit a wall at consistent five-figure months, paying for team & expenses her revenue didn't match, running the masterclass → training → structure playbook because that's what everyone else was doing. The fork in the road was do it again, or build something nobody had seen. She built a virtual Winter Wonderland. Industry leaders whose books were on her table started showing up asking to work with her. Someone offered her $30K to speak on their stage.

We get into why so many women start a business & then keep looking for safety inside it, how the people who hit 1% level results move in ways most people won't, & why the edge should feel like crawling toward a cliff above the clouds .. not the version of "edgy" that lives in your head & never makes it into your actions. Strategy is just spaghetti someone threw at a wall until it stuck. The question is why you're still only following other people's.

Mary's session at NGF this year is implementation-based, not another to-do list. She has a speaker code if you want to be in the room.

Last year at Nice Girl Funeral VIP, Jill was one of the very few people I could not get on stage. This year she's a spotlight speaker. Same woman. Same stutter. Different ceiling.

Jill has stuttered her whole life & for years ran a quiet rule underneath her business: I can run with the big dogs once I somehow don't have it anymore. Other coaches told her not to talk about it. So she hid .. subtly, while believing she was showing up & doing all the things. A sales drought, pulled-back live calls, discounted rates, clients she kept because she needed to feel chosen. The first thing we did together was make her talk about it. Then she ran one live call & made $34K.

We get into what "I don't want to inconvenience people" actually is (nice girl funeral coded, every time), why people-pleasing is just manipulating the room so you get picked, the tough-coach exterior that keeps the vulnerable little girl underneath from ever being called out, & shame money .. the six figures you can make while still hiding, until it burns you out & you burn it down again.

Jill is on the NGF stage this October. She also has a code for you if you want to be in the room.

You can't embody a result.

Everyone in this industry is selling you a feeling that runs in the opposite direction to how it actually happens.

Knowing this will make you a lot more money.

This is the real psychology behind why your content prints some months & dies in others.

Nothing in your strategy changed. Something in you did.

Your subconscious is signalling to your audience whether you approve it or not.

The strategic blitz if I wanted to scale past $100K to $300K+ this YEAR 🔥

Not the year plan. The blitz.

Twenty-five minutes of exactly what I'd do & in what order.

That's why you don't have it.

If you're scared to want the thing you REALLY want .. this one.

If you're scared to try because "what if it doesn't work out" .. this one.

The risk was never in the wanting.