God designed us for community, and the relationships we cultivate have a profound impact on our character and faith. Proverbs reminds us that true friendship is more than just companionship - it’s about sharpening one another, walking through life’s highs and lows together, and ultimately reflecting God’s love. We’ll look at what it means to be a faithful friend, how to build lasting relationships, and why friendships rooted in Christ are life-giving. The greatest example of true friendship comes from Jesus Himself. In John 15:13, He tells us, "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends." Jesus didn’t just teach about friendship; He demonstrated it through His sacrificial love. We’ll explore what it means to love, challenge, and support one another in ways that honor God. We’ll also talk about how we can overcome the challenges of friendship - betrayal, conflict, and forgiveness. Biblical wisdom helps us navigate the roadblocks. I encourage you to come ready to reflect on your own friendships. Do you have people in your life who sharpen you in your faith? Are you the kind of friend who encourages and strengthens others? Let’s be intentional about building the kind of friendships that bring us closer to Christ. I look forward to learning with you this Sunday as we grow together in God’s wisdom!

God designed us for community, and the relationships we cultivate have a profound impact on our character and faith. Proverbs reminds us that true friendship is more than just companionship - it’s about sharpening one another, walking through life’s highs and lows together, and ultimately reflecting God’s love. We’ll look at what it means to be a faithful friend, how to build lasting relationships, and why friendships rooted in Christ are life-giving.

The greatest example of true friendship comes from Jesus Himself. In John 15:13, He tells us, "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends." Jesus didn’t just teach about friendship; He demonstrated it through His sacrificial love. We’ll explore what it means to love, challenge, and support one another in ways that honor God. We’ll also talk about how we can overcome the challenges of friendship - betrayal, conflict, and forgiveness. Biblical wisdom helps us navigate the roadblocks.

I encourage you to come ready to reflect on your own friendships. Do you have people in your life who sharpen you in your faith? Are you the kind of friend who encourages and strengthens others? Let’s be intentional about building the kind of friendships that bring us closer to Christ. I look forward to learning with you this Sunday as we grow together in God’s wisdom!

This Sunday, we will explore what the book of Proverbs teaches us about our emotions. Emotions are a gift from God, but without wisdom, they can lead us astray. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us to guard the heart because everything we do flows from it. Throughout Scripture, we see how emotions like anger, envy, and anxiety can destroy, while self-control, patience, and joy bring life and peace. Our goal is not to suppress emotions but to guide them through the wisdom of God’s Word so that they serve His purposes rather than control us. The life of Jesus provides the perfect example—his emotions were always righteous, whether it was compassion for the lost, grief over sin, or righteous anger at hypocrisy. Jesus and the apostle Paul show us how to properly steward our emotions. Jesus wept over Jerusalem and the death of Lazarus, showing his deep sorrow, yet he also expressed righteous anger at the Pharisees' hardness of heart and the corruption in the temple. Paul, too, displayed intense concern for the spiritual well-being of others, as seen in 2 Corinthians 11:29. However, both did not allow their emotions to lead them into sin; instead, they were guided by truth and love. Today, we face similar challenges—our emotions can either drive us closer to God or lead us astray. For example, Proverbs warns us that anger can be destructive if unchecked, jealousy is more dangerous than wrath, and the fear of man leads to folly. Instead of following the world’s advice to "follow your heart," we are called to align our emotions with God's wisdom. So how do we cultivate Godly emotions? It begins with the fear of the Lord, which is the foundation of wisdom. When we fear God more than we fear the opinions of others, we are freed from the emotional turmoil of seeking human approval. We learn to control our anger, replacing it with patience and discernment. We overcome jealousy by finding our worth in Christ rather than comparison. We move from anxiety to peace by trusting in God's sovereignty. Above all, we look to Jesus, who endured the cross for the joy set before him (Hebrews 12:2), showing us that true joy is found in living for God’s purposes. Let us ask the Holy Spirit to search our hearts and transform our emotions so that we reflect Christ in every aspect of our lives.

This Sunday, we’re turning to the book of Proverbs to explore God’s design for husbands and wives. The modern family has undergone significant redefinitions, yet stability and fulfillment seem more elusive than ever. While society offers competing narratives, Scripture presents a clear and timeless vision. Proverbs 31 paints a picture of a strong, virtuous wife, while the rest of Proverbs offers wisdom for husbands - calling them to integrity, faithfulness, and sacrificial leadership. Marriage is not a competition but a covenant, and when both husband and wife embrace God’s design, the home flourishes. Some may read Proverbs 31 and feel overwhelmed rather than encouraged. But this passage is not a checklist of impossible standards; it is a lifelong picture of Godly character, cultivated by God’s grace. True strength comes not from striving for perfection but from trusting in the Lord. Husbands, our role is to cultivate an environment where our wives can thrive, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. Wives, your strength and wisdom are a gift that builds up your family. Together, a Godly marriage is not only possible but profoundly beautiful when rooted in biblical wisdom. As we prepare to dive into this text, I challenge each of us to reflect on our roles within our families. Husbands, are you leading with integrity, love, and sacrifice? Wives, are you embracing the strength and wisdom that God has given you? And for those who are not yet married, are you preparing your heart to walk in God’s wisdom? May we all look to Christ, the perfect example of love and leadership, as we seek to build marriages and homes that honor Him.

The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and honor and life. Proverbs 22:4 This Sunday, we will explore the themes of pride and humility as presented throughout the book of Proverbs. Scripture makes it clear that pride is a barrier to wisdom, while humility is the key to receiving instruction and growing in faith. Proverbs, along with passages from Matthew, James, and 1 Corinthians, reminds us that those who exalt themselves will be humbled, but those who humble themselves will be lifted up by God. The world encourages self-promotion and self-esteem, but the Bible calls us to place our confidence not in ourselves but in the Lord. Pride is often deceptive, showing up in subtle ways, including the self-help movement’s emphasis on self-importance. However, studies show that those who believe themselves superior to others are often the most violent and prejudiced. In other words, we have too much self-esteem. Scripture warns us that pride leads to destruction, as seen in Satan’s fall, while humility leads to grace, wisdom, and true greatness. True humility is not self-deprecation but rather a recognition that our talents, abilities, and even our very lives are gifts from God. We don’t need more self-esteem; we need more gospel-esteem - the understanding that our worth comes from Christ’s love and sacrifice, not our own achievements. As we prepare our hearts for Sunday, let’s reflect on how God is calling us to walk in humility. Are there areas of pride we need to confess? Is there someone we need to seek forgiveness from or extend grace to? When we humble ourselves before God, we open our lives to His blessings and wisdom. Let’s embrace the posture of a disciple, coming before God with a heart that says, “Teach me. Help me adopt the humility of Jesus in what I say and do.”

For the past ten weeks, we have walked through Proverbs 1-9, a section of Scripture that paints a vivid picture of wisdom’s beauty and folly’s destruction. Now, as we move into Proverbs 10, we transition from poetic discourse to the practical, everyday wisdom of the Proverbs themselves. The structure may seem scattered, jumping from one topic to another, but this is intentional - it encourages reflection and discussion. As we begin this next section, we will organize proverbs thematically, starting with the most frequently mentioned topic: our words. The sage speaks more about our speech than he does about money, sex, or family. Why? Because our words carry immense power - for life or death. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” Proverbs 18:21 We have all felt the weight of words. A careless insult can linger in our hearts for years, while a word of encouragement can change the trajectory of a person’s life. Gossip, slander, and false accusations tear apart families, friendships, and even churches. Proverbs 6:16-19 lists seven things the Lord hates, and among them are a lying tongue and one who sows discord among brothers. Gossip isn’t just a minor offense, it is a direct attack on unity, love, and peace, which are at the core of God’s design for His people. And let’s not forget that listening to gossip makes us just as guilty as speaking it. “An evildoer listens to wicked lips, and a liar gives ear to a mischievous tongue.” Proverbs 17:4 Gossip would die if there were no eager ears to receive it. But just as words have the power to destroy, they also have the power to heal. A timely word of encouragement can lift the soul, as Proverbs 12:25 says, “Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.” Jesus Himself embodied this balance. He was full of both grace and truth. He spoke life into the broken, the weary, and the lost. And He warns us in Matthew 12:36-37 that we will give an account for every careless word we speak. Our words reflect what is in our hearts, and they will either justify us or condemn us. So, let’s consider the diet of our words: what we speak, we consume. May our words be full of grace, seasoned with salt, and reflective of Christ, bringing life and healing to those around us.

This Sunday, we will explore Proverbs 9, a chapter that vividly portrays the crossroads of life we all face. As I studied this text, I was struck anew by the richness of its imagery. Proverbs 9 presents two contrasting invitations: one from Lady Wisdom, who offers a feast of life-giving truth, and the other from Lady Folly, who lures with empty promises that lead to destruction. Both are calling out, but their outcomes could not be more different. This passage reminds us that life is a series of decisions, each one drawing us closer to either wisdom or folly. Whose invitation will we accept? We will consider the nature of wisdom’s call—patient, generous, and built on a foundation of reverence for God. Wisdom doesn’t demand perfection but invites teachability. It prepares a place for those humble enough to recognize their need. On the other hand, folly’s appeal is loud, seductive, and fleeting, preying on our innate tendency to choose what is easy over what is right. Proverbs challenges us to see beyond the surface of our decisions and recognize their eternal significance. It’s not just about choosing well - it’s about living well under the guidance and grace of God. As we gather, my prayer is that this message equips you to discern the voices calling out to you. The gospel of Jesus Christ makes wisdom’s way not only possible but also joyous. He is the embodiment of God’s wisdom and the ultimate banquet of life. Let’s come ready to ask ourselves: Whose house am I dwelling in? And where is God leading me next? May His Spirit guide us as we seek to walk in the way of insight.

Proverbs chapters 5 and 7 explore the destructive consequences of following cultural views of sexuality that ignore God’s design. Proverbs 8 shifts our focus to a better way - God’s wisdom. Wisdom is personified as a dignified woman who calls out to all. Unlike the seductive voice of folly, wisdom offers life, joy, and clarity. She’s not hidden or exclusive; she stands at the crossroads and city gates, calling everyone to listen and follow God’s design for life. Wisdom, like Jesus, speaks truth with love, offering guidance to those who seek it diligently. Proverbs 8 reminds us that wisdom isn’t just practical but eternal—it existed before creation and aligns perfectly with God’s order. Living apart from God’s wisdom leads to chaos and brokenness, but embracing it brings understanding, justice, and joy. It teaches us to hate evil, shun pride, and make prudent, God-honoring decisions. At the world’s birth, wisdom shaped chaos into creation, so she also redeems our personal messes when we turn to her. Like Jesus, wisdom doesn’t deceive or mislead; it offers lasting fulfillment and directs us toward the life God designed us to live. To fully embrace wisdom, we must hear, take, and listen. Hearing wisdom calls for tuning out the noise of a culture saturated with distractions. Taking wisdom means choosing it over fleeting treasures like money or possessions, recognizing its incomparable value. Listening to wisdom involves a heart of humility and a willingness to apply God’s truth. As we diligently seek wisdom, God transforms our lives, bringing joy, purpose, and a glimpse of His eternal plan. May we respond to wisdom’s call and live lives that reflect the wisdom found in Jesus!

Here’s my question: when given a gift, is there any obligation to that gift? You say, "of course not, a gift is a gift!" But, what if it’s a gift entrusted? You may ask, "What do you mean by that?" It's a gift that has a responsibility to do something with it. This is a parable about the entrustment of talents.

In Israel, a talent was not a coin, it was a weight. The value of the weight depended on whether the coinage involved was copper, silver, or gold. The value of a talent differed from place to place. Here, in this context, the talent was the largest unit of currency in that day. A talent amounted to no less than 6,000 denarii. One denarius was a day’s wage. An ordinary laborer took almost 20 years to earn that amount.

This enormous amount says something of the Master’s confidence in His servants and the responsibility they were given. The expectation is for one to use the talent they had received.

We may not be equal in talent, but we are to be equal in effort. What is faithfulness to the stewardship of that gift?

I look forward to seeing you this Sunday as we navigate this question and learn from Matthew 25:14—30.

This week will we explore Proverbs 6, where the wise father addresses three key areas of life: financial wisdom, diligence versus laziness, and the importance of unity. First on his mind is the danger of co-signing unwise financial agreements, likened to a snare that entraps us. The Bible does not condemn debt outright but warns against decisions that jeopardize our financial stability or enable poor stewardship in others. 

Next, we turn to the metaphor of the ant, that little creature modeling diligence and intrinsic motivation. The ant’s unwavering effort in preparation and perseverance teaches us to work hard, seize opportunities, and reject the laziness of the sluggard, who passively reacts to life and suffers the consequences. Work is a gift from God, providing us with purpose and the ability to share with others. As a church, we are called to be like an anthill, each member fulfilling their role to build a thriving, unified community. We must reject excuses that keep us stagnant, allowing God’s transformative power to redefine our future, regardless of our past - no more excuses!

Finally, we will be reminded of the grave danger of those who sow discord within the body of Christ. Unity is central to the church's witness to the world, showing that Jesus alone unites us above all else. God detests division among His people, and we are called to guard against arrogance, deceit, and conflict. Instead, we must strive for harmony, living in alignment with God's will and purpose. As believers, our prayer should not be for comfort but to become a blessing, reflecting the love and sacrifice of Christ in all we do.