Listen to me refuse to reveal my age - I joke. This is all about Paloma, doing her Master’s in the cosmopolitan Barçelona. Why did Paloma leave South Africa to do her Master’s? Let’s find out. Paloma who identifies as queer shares her curiosity about men - we talk about the complexities of her identity.

What did I walk away with from recording this episode?

1. Paloma is an amazing human.

This episode was produced by Kgothi R.

Here is something different. Not so different but different… with season 1 coming to an end, we offer the host seat to Bianca Lakey - a special human with a loving heart. She walks us through her fitness and wellness journey, where it all began and how it’s going now. Press play, it’s worth it.

This episode was produced by Kgothi R.

Have you gotten used to me rambling chaotically? Great, because Claire and I take the chaos up a notch. I met Claire in 2019, we became colleagues and very good friends in 2020. Friends? Add friends with a little bit of spice. Join Claire and I as we discuss a whole lot of topics, including Antinatalism, unpack a valuable conversation we had on her porch and more. In the words of Claire, this is a: “valuable ramble”.

This episode was produced by Kgothi R.

One two many beers on my birthday (18/11), get it? Anyway, a tipsy Kgothi felt quite spontaneous on his birthday and decided to ring one of his best mates from his first year. We chat, catch up, laugh and simply embrace spontaneity.

This episode was produced by Kgtohi R.

Sarah, a good friend of mine from Bern, Switzerland - and I engage in one of the most complex topics out there in the world. Sarah and I often challenge each other intellectually, and I believe that is what has kept our friendship alive over these past 4 years. Join Sarah and me as we talk about how being in interracial relationships has either made us curious, hurt or enlightened.

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A random and somewhat spontaneous phone call on a Thursday afternoon with Toni-Rochelle. A warm human, who has recently started a new job. We catch up and use this call to also reminisce. Sit down, relax, make yourself some tea and join Toni and I.

This episode was produced by Kgothi R.

What does life look like when you actively choose to cross racial boundaries and find love beyond your borders? Walk with me and Erryn as we talk about what it's like navigating interracial relationships.This episode was produced by Kgothi R. & Moyahabo Modiba.

A relationship that had gone well for both Carla and me has come to a shocking end. What happened? How did we meet? Was it rushed?Find out as we uncouple in arguably, the most unconventional way. This episode was produced by Kgothi R. & Zanele Tlali.

Have you ever been confronted with the idea that your strengths can equally be your weaknesses as well? Yep, I know that feeling. Join me as I ramble about that feeling.

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This week’s guest, Lara Gilmartin, my ex-girlfriend and most importantly a good friend of mine granted me the opportunity to talk about our past. Tune in as Lara and I look back…

This episode was produced by Kgothi R.