Baby....When he shows you who they are believe them. This man had a mistress for 1.5 years and he paid for her living expenses including private school for a family member. He took about $30, 0oo from his household to give to her while his kids had to apply for free meals and his wife had to sit through those painful vacation presentations to get a discount or free stuff for the family. He lied and said he had a gambling problem so he could give all the money away. Get this: one day the wife came home and found the nude mistress in their kitchen cooking??????????