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In this episode, Katy sits down with Brittany for an honest conversation about growing up adopted, becoming a mom, and defining family on your own terms.

Brittany shares what it was like being adopted with her brother, how her mom talked about adoption, and how motherhood has shaped the way she looks at identity, belonging, boundaries, and family. 

Whether you’re adopted, raising an adopted child, navigating complicated family relationships, or simply drawn to honest conversations about motherhood, this episode is a reminder that family does not have to look one specific way. It can be defined by love, safety, and the people who show up for you. 💛

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Today we’re talking about something every parent thinks about around water: confidence, safety, and knowing when to start.

In this episode, Katy sits down with Jenny for an honest conversation about teaching water confidence, signing kids up for swim lessons, and what it feels like to watch your child learn something that is both exciting and a little scary.

We’re getting into the real-life questions so many moms have:

When should you start swim lessons?

What if your child cries or feels nervous in the water?

How do you build water confidence without forcing it?

 Whether your child is new to the pool, nervous around water, or ready for swim lessons, this episode is a reminder that water confidence starts small, and safety begins with helping them feel comfortable one step at a time. 💛

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Pumping can bring up so many questions, especially when you’re trying to protect your supply, build a routine, or figure out what’s actually normal.

In this episode, Katy sits down with Tanya Roberts from Lactation Connection for Part 3 of our breastfeeding series. They’re talking through the things moms often do not learn until they’re already in the middle of it, from choosing a pump to understanding flange fit, replacing pump parts, building supply, and making pumping work in real life.

We’re getting into questions like:

Which type of breast pump is right for you?
Why does flange size matter?
How do worn-out pump parts affect output?
What can hurt your milk supply without you realizing it?
How do you build a pumping schedule that actually works?

This is Part 3 of our breastfeeding series, so be sure to listen to the other parts for more breastfeeding, pumping, and postpartum feeding support.

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Today we’re talking about one of the biggest breastfeeding questions new moms have: How much milk does my baby actually need?

In this episode, Katy sits down with Tanya Roberts from Lactation Connection for Part 2 of our breastfeeding series. Tanya is helping break down the feeding questions that can feel confusing, stressful, or impossible to figure out at 3 a.m. Because if you’ve ever wondered, “Is my baby getting enough?” you are not alone.💛

We’re getting into the real-life questions so many moms have when it comes to feeding their baby:

How much milk does a baby actually need?
How do you know if your baby is getting enough?
What’s normal in the early days of breastfeeding?
How does pumping and bottle feeding fit into the picture?
Can you drink alcohol while breastfeeding?
And what should moms know before they start panicking about milk supply?

This is Part 2 of our breastfeeding series, so be sure to stay tuned and listen to the other parts for more breastfeeding, pumping, and postpartum feeding support.

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Today we’re talking about something so many moms expect to feel “natural”… until they’re actually in it: Breastfeeding.

In this episode, Katy sits down with Tanya Roberts from Lactation Connection for Part 1 of our breastfeeding series. Tanya shares her background in supporting moms through breastfeeding, pumping, and the emotional ups and downs that can come with feeding your baby.

We’re getting into the real-life questions so many moms have in those early days:

• What does a good latch actually look and feel like?
• What are the common latching mistakes moms don’t realize they’re making?
• Can pumping too early or too often make things harder?
• What’s the difference between mastitis and engorgement?
• And what should moms really know about milk supply in the beginning?

Whether you’re pregnant, newly postpartum, exclusively nursing, pumping, combo feeding, or just trying to understand what’s normal, this episode is full of the breastfeeding real talk so many moms wish they had sooner.

Because if feeding your baby feels harder than you thought it would, you’re not failing. You’re learning something new, and you deserve support while you figure it out. 💛

This is Part 1 of our breastfeeding series, so be sure to stay tuned and listen to the other parts for more breastfeeding, pumping, and postpartum feeding support.

Shop Lactation Connection:
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Follow Tanya Roberts with Lactation Connection:
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Today we’re asking a question so many parents think about… but don’t always say out loud:

Are we raising soft kids?

It’s one of those uncomfortable, honest conversations that hits a little too close to home. Have we made life too easy for our kids? Did we overcorrect from how we were raised? And what does that actually mean for them as they grow up and face the real world?

We’re getting into all of it:

• The difference between giving our kids a good life vs. creating entitlement
• How our childhoods shaped us—and how that’s showing up in our parenting
• Moments that made us stop and rethink what we’re doing
• How to teach resilience, gratitude, and independence (even when they’ve never gone without)

This isn’t about blaming ourselves or pretending we have it all figured out. It’s about being honest, reflecting, and realizing that it’s okay to adjust as we go.

If you’ve ever wondered if you’re doing too much… or not enough… this conversation will hit home.

Because caring enough to ask the hard questions? That’s exactly what makes you a good parent. 💛

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Today we’re diving into the questions so many moms have… but are too embarrassed to ask out loud.

You know the ones—the late-night Google searches, the “is this normal?” spirals, the things that feel too awkward or too vulnerable to bring up at your OB appointment.

We’re covering it all:

• Pooping during labor (yes, we’re going there)
• Tearing during birth—how bad is it really?
• Postpartum bleeding and what actually happens after delivery
• The physical and emotional reality of your postpartum body

This episode is honest, reassuring, and a reminder that you are never the only one wondering these things.

If you’ve ever felt unsure, overwhelmed, or just plain curious about what’s coming—this conversation is for you.

Because asking the questions? That’s what makes you a great mom already. 💛

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One minute they're your sweet, honest little baby, and the next they're looking you straight in the face insisting they didn't do the thing you know they did. Katy sits down with DD to talk about why kids lie, what it actually means developmentally, and how we respond without damaging the trust we've worked so hard to build.

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Why does three suddenly come with so much attitude? Katy sits down with Brittany to talk about the sass, defiance, and power struggles that can make you wonder if you’re doing something wrong. They unpack what’s actually happening developmentally at this age and share simple, realistic ways to respond without turning every moment into a battle.

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You probably wouldn't have guessed that the Brand Manager for Caden Lane wasn't a mom, but she's finally pregnant with her first baby! Katy wanted to sit down with Kylie to ask how she found her inspiration, how her experience has helped her feel prepared, and what she's looking forward to next!

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