ImDealingWith

Growing something new causes you to take a leap of Faith into the unknown.

When you leap, make sure it has nothing to do with wearing a cape like I did. Superheroes get hurt, injured, killed and at many times they can no longer care about intimate relationships for fear of danger to the ones they love. Wearing a cape won't make you fly, however, but love, determination, selflessness and drive will at least get you close to flying. Take the time, have patience and watch your life turn around. Don't be afraid of taking the leap....

Trials come to make us strong....

Sometimes its our fault that the fires come and in other times life just happens....

In these fires however there is something to learn in each one. Will you go through the

fire complaining or will you deal with and learn from them?

Two specific fires happen, one was while in bed, the other in my car, lets dive in...

In this episode we discuss the places in our lives that have become dirty for many different reasons.

The goal here is to understand that these places are not meant to be permanent places of habitation

but a stop along the way. If we stay, play, build and live in the dirty places, we miss out on all the possible

opportunities out there for us. Let's clean up, spruce up or in some cases move out of the dirty place. 

In this podcast we talk about the days of making a choice to ride away from a consequence..

Through that choice we were forced to do things we normally wouldn't do based upon character.

It is in this discovery that we must realize that choices both good and bad, have a backside to 

them.  Choose wisely  in everything that you do, so you are not forced to live beneath your privilege.

Just because something failed in your life doesn't make you a failure.

Failure is a state of mind that later becomes a way of life and you cannot

afford to spend your life, pitch your tent or build a house there. Failing however,

is part of life and it happens to the best of us regardless of age, gender or social

status. What you do and how you respond to these drops is a choice you have to 

make.

It's not everyday that you can have complete oversight or make decisions on everything.

However in this episode, we learn that there are many decisions that effect our children both good and bad.

Today we discuss the struggles that fathers have with our children, how to strengthen that bond but more 

importantly staying present in their lives. What are the cons of not doing it? Listen to the story.....

When troubling times happen in your life, its not what you say the matters or how you feel.

What matters most is your response and what you do..It is in fact only in what you do that

bring you out of the circumstance or keeps you in...But while in it or going through it, help

someone along the way!!

In this episode 6:

We deal with the idea of what our eyes see draws us to conclusions that may or may not be true. Are you willing to take the time and invest in the people who are close to you or those of interest. It is only through communication, collaboration and communion can one truly have an accurate measurement of those they seek to have in their lives. "Be quick to listen, slow to speak" 

The She, is whoever and whatever you want your she to be. Put a name on your she and understand that there are many elements to a man that could be a she, as we men never name our stuff after a man. What have you lost? Is it time, money, patience, love, relationship, or maybe a mother, father, brother. Your she could in fact be health related or some other sort.

Today I discuss the she that effected me, yet challenged me to no longer take a she for granted if one comes back.

Well I'm here to tell you, she will always come back, but it's what you learned during the loss that matters.....

What are you Dealingwith?