The She, is whoever and whatever you want your she to be. Put a name on your she and understand that there are many elements to a man that could be a she, as we men never name our stuff after a man. What have you lost? Is it time, money, patience, love, relationship, or maybe a mother, father, brother. Your she could in fact be health related or some other sort.
Well I'm here to tell you, she will always come back, but it's what you learned during the loss that matters.....