Have you ever thought "Why should I be the one doing all the work to improve intimacy, when my husband is the one who wants to have sex all the time?"  This is a natural question to ask ourselves when we don't know a better one to ask.  But this is also a question that leads us to inaction... waiting around for our spouse to make all the changes.

The biggest trap couples fall into with when this type of question comes into play, is that it can leave us waiting around for someone else to solve our problem, and we may be waiting around for a long, long time.  Now that will just lead to more frustration, resentment, and even less of a desire to be intimate.  Not good.

So, let's try a different approach.  Let's try asking some better questions that will actually improve the way we are thinking about our life, sparking a new type of desire and motivation within us.  Listen now to discover 4 questions that can help us think about improving intimacy differently.