In a Gay Way

In a Gay Way

By Kaley Vetter and Larissa DowlingComedy
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In a Gay Way episodes

  • BONUS! Season 1 Mixtape

    Wow, look how far we've come! In a Gay Way is taking a brief hiatus to regroup and come back better than ever for Season Two. Don't go anywhere! Keep an eye on our socials for new content and announcements while we are on hiatus. Thanks, gays!


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    55 min
  • #20: Biggest Brat on the East

    This week is our 20th episode and end of Season 1! YAY! The gays have a silly time and reminisce on the early days of the pod... as Kaley says, "sometimes your first idea's not the best one." We will be sharing a special bonus episode next week and will be back with Season 2! Stay tuned!


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    Fact Check and Mentions:

    Love Island USA: Season 8





    51 min
  • #19: Locked Out!

    This week Kaley and Larissa talk houseguests, love and break ups, wedding venue hunting, and getting locked out of your brain. They ask our listeners, "What’s the most ridiculous thing you and your partner have argued about?" sparking intense debate over breakups and rainfall showers. Indy, if you're reading this will you confirm whether you are Scandinavian or not?

    We're inviting guests to the pod in Season 2! Should you or someone you know be one of our first guests? Email or DM us!

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    Fact Check and Mentions:

    "It's a Sin" TV Mini Series (2021)

    "What it Feels Like for a Girl" TV Drama (2025)


    57 min
  • #18: A Personal Apology to Jaime Bourbonnais

    This week Kaley and Lars cover the new pro women's baseball league, Jaime Bourbonnais, Megan Rapinoe being flagged and pulled from a brand deal over her advocacy of trans rights, and more. Jaime, we think you're amazing!

    We are inviting guests to the pod in Season 2! Should you or someone you know be one of our first guests? Email or DM us!


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    Fact Check and Mentions:

    Megan Rapinoe says AI flagged her as a brand 'risk' over trans rights advocacy.


    Information on the proposed ballot measure in Washington that would require all girls to be medically certified in order to play on sports teams, and could subject them to genital exams for verification


    Women’s Pro Baseball League (WPBL)


    46 min
  • #17: Wuh Luh Wuh with no Wuh to Luh

    This week on the pod, Kaley and Larissa talk the new Heartstopper movie, Texas wedding venue tours, a clambake, and Kaley loses her mind over a Kristin Stewart related compliment. Listeners write in to answer the prompt "Being WLW is fun until__" and we play a little game of ScatterGAYries.

    We are adding guests to the pod for Season 2! Should you or someone you know be one of our first guests? Email or DM us!


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    Heartstopper Forever (2026) is out now and available to stream on Netflix.


    In July 2026, an LGBTQ+ cruise aboard Virgin Voyages’ Scarlet Lady was denied entry to Turkey and Egypt. Turkish officials cited "moral standards" and "family values", while Egypt revoked docking permission at Alexandria hours before arrival. Source, The New York Times.




    47 min
  • #16: Goosh Brothers

    This week Kaley and Larissa talk waterparks, the 2026 Tom Thailand Beauty Pageant, and Hayley Kiyoko’s new film, Girls Like Girls. Listeners write in to tell us how they are “signalling” their queerness, and the gays end with a newly vindicated game of Ding, Dong, or Ditch.


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    Fact Check and Mentions

    Definition of Tom in Thai Culture


    Article on the new pageant show, The Tom Thailand 2026.


    Hayley Kiyoko’s film, Girls Like Girls



    35 min
  • #15: Gay Background Noise

    This week on the pod, Kaley and Larissa discuss sneezes, Dyke Day debauchery, Larissa’s deep love of Hallmark, and homesickness. They celebrate the eleven year anniversary of Obergefell v Hodges, Lil Nas X re-emerging online, and Kaley buying her wedding dress! Listeners answer how they’re signaling to other queer people, and they end with a new game featuring movie snacks— what should we call it?

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    Fact Checks & Mentions:

    Lil Nas X’s Instagram Post

    Modern Family Wedding

    HRC Obergefell v Hodges Article

    Ze/Zir Definition 





    49 min
  • #14: Unfortunate Phrasing

    This week our composer and Kaley's little brother, Kovi Vetter, visits the pod! The gays talk Dayna Kathan of Vanderpump Rules coming out as a lesbian, the dumpster fire that was Pride Month 2025, and ask the hard hitting questions like "Do straight people smile?"


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    Fact Check and Mentions:

    Dayna Kathan comes out in a June 2026 post.

    33 min
  • #13: WeHo Pride, Oh Mary! & Gay Nuns

    This week Kaley and Larissa search for the definition of their approachable-level of hotness, they reminisce about their time at WeHo pride and Kaley recounts her recent experience of getting trapped inside of a dream. They discuss deep fakes, Meg Stalter in Oh Mary! and gay nuns. The gays finish the episode with Pride themed madlibs and Larissa realizes they “wifed up a curvy lamp.”

    Rest In Peace, Rookie ❤️


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    Fact Checks & Mentions:

    Between the Lions - Children's program on PBS Kids (1999-2011)

    Kyle Massey Allegations and Charge of one count of immoral communication with a minor

    Meg Stalter in Oh Mary!

    • Meg Stalter (of "Hi, gay" fame) will join the production, making her Broadway debut, beginning July 6 for a 10-week limited engagement.

    Oh Mary! North American Tour Dates

    • Tour cast yet to be announced

    Deep Fakes of James Talarico Article: "Republicans Cannot Stop Generating Images of James Talarico as a Woman" by Mattew Rodriguez

    Gay Nuns Article Mention: "Two Nuns Hated Each Other..." by Molly Sprayregen

    44 min
  • #12: Boy by Day, Queen by Night

    Kaley and Larissa discuss Kaley’s nightmarish experience doing drag in a conservative night club, Larissa plugs the show traveling drag makeover show, We’re Here, and Larissa decides they would prefer to be a Queen. They read listener write-ins about dating red flags, and they fantasize about which archetype of Queer they would be if they could choose (Larissa wants to be a nonchalant athlete, if you even care.) They get into gay pop-culture of the week, focusing on Pornhub Sapphic, Fightmaster’s debut album, Tolerance, and the Towa Bird/Katy O’Brian music video. They end the episode with the game, "Two Truths and a Lie," as well as "Two Lies and a Truth" because Kaley messed up. 


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    Fact Checks & Mentions:

    We’re Here - Larissa's Show Recommendation We're Here is an HBO reality television series featuring former Drag Race contestants, documenting the drag queens as they travel across the United States.

    Pornhub Sapphic Announcement - Out.com Article

    Music Video for "Dog" by Towa Bird, Starring Katy O’Brian


    41 min

About In a Gay Way

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"In a Gay Way" is a queer comedy podcast where hosts Kaley and Larissa discuss life, love, pop culture, and the foibles of being young and gay in LA.