In Bed with Dr Sue

In what we know will be a contentious issue and show I am joined by Mistress Mia Darque and Master Blackrod. Mistress Mia you will remember from the show on Giantess fetish where we touched briefly on this very topic of race play and decided then that we would have to do an entire show on the subject.  Master Blackrod has some very definite ideas regarding the racist aspects of sex play and when it crosses the line.

A brief history of African American slursDoes me indulging in raceplay for profit make me a sell out to my race?What am I? (A look into what the provider is comfortable with for themselves)If I'm the dominant don't I run the show? Being a top in raceplay.Can a white couple (cuckold scene) use the term Queen of Spades?Can a white person indulge in race play?and MORE!

What are your thoughts?

Whether you are a proud sex worker, you support sex workers, or you are not empowered or proud but you are working it for your own reasons, this is your chance to be heard.

June 2 is International Sex Worker Day and in light of the recent passing of FOSTA/SESTA ~ The Cloud Act and End Banking for Human Trafficking Act this day of celebration is even more important this year as we all stand up to fight against descrimination of LEGAL SEX WORK.

If you can't join a local march or rally I want to give you a chance to call in and tell the world how you feel about legal sex work and how this law is affecting your life.

In this OPEN LINE LIVE CALL-IN SHOW the mic is all YOURS! 

657-383-0031

Join Ashley Jill and myself as we explore smoking fetish and we’ll also be talking more about the FOSTA fall out.  You might not want to hear what I’ll be telling you about the reasons why sites such as FetLife have had to pull the plug on certain fetishes despite the negative feedback.

We’ll also discuss

Who participates in a smoking fetish knowing they’re killing themselves?Why would anyone think smoking is sexy?The art of smokingSmoking coercionWhy are Findom and Pro-Domination being targeted?Why have so many terms of service been changed recently?What is going on in Europe on May 25th?The recent changes to bankingTwitter shadow banning; how to keep your account from disappearing

Ashley Jill and myself will be discussing all of the issues surrounding the passing of FOSTA/SESTA on March 21/2018. I will attempt to get as many answers as I can regarding what services are changing and hopefully what services are not.

We’ll also go over:

What is FOSTA/SESTA?What does it mean?Why it affects you if you’re not in the U.S.What services can you TRUST?What services have been affected?And more importantly what you can do to help survive this tragedy of a bill and maintain your business.

You truly don't want to miss this show with the legendary Mistress Mia Darque. We are going to be hitting on a ton of subjects including giantess of course but we're also going to be discussing race play, body positivity, corporal punishment and even the trend of geeks and gaming in BDSM. So set a reminder on your phone right now to make it for this fantastic show!

Giantess:

The differences between glamazons, giantesses and amazons

How much does actual height have to do with it?

Giantess and the AB/DL fetish

The effects of Namio Harukawa on post WWII giantess and plus size body positivity.

Corporal punishment:

Race relations (dealing with varying ethnicities in certain aspects of race play)

Knowing how and when to tell a masochist - enough is enough

Working with extreme masochists in general and what to do when you think you've run out options

Nerds...The new frontier (geek fetish in S&M)

Too often we become far too complacent with both our online and offline safety. We can get sucked up into that, ‘It can’t happen to me,’ mentality. And that can have some dangerous consequences.

Corii Siren and I are going to bring you some issues that have cropped up and whether you are new to this business or a seasoned professional we ask that you listen in because your security is of utmost importance.   We’ll also be discussing changes you can make to keep yourself safer.

I personally have stories you need to hear from past ladies who have been stalked and present ladies who have been murdered. This isn’t sensationalism; I wish it was, unfortunately its fact.  So am I telling you them to scare you? 100%. Cause you should be scared if you’re not taking this seriously.  But we’ll also be discussing changes you can make to keep yourself safer so it’s not all gloom and doom.

Look I know for some of you the term ‘sex worker’ is off-putting but like it or not that’s what we all are. From Dommes to cam girls to actors we are all in this together so let’s stop worrying about terminology and start taking care of one another.

We also want you to please share your stories of security issues you’ve had in the past. CALL IN (it’s completely anonymous) during the show to share any issues you’ve experienced, your story could help someone. Are you experiencing any issues you need help with? CALL IN and we'll try to help you.

You may have noticed a slight change in the LGBTQ community‘s acronym of late to include the letter “I.” So what’s with the “I”? Well the letter “I” stands for Intersex. And what is intersex? Well that’s precisely what Sadie Synn andMadame Margherite are here to educate us about.

Tune in and find out:

What Intersex is?

How Intersex differs from Transgender including

The difference between biological sex and gender identity

Infant Conforming Genital Mutilation

Issues that those who are Intersex face

Struggles with the medical community

The obstacles involved in dating and intimacy

The social awkwardness, having to stay covered up, conforming to societal standards

How to be a good ally to an Intersex individual

How to raise awareness about Intersex without being Intersex

How to speak with an Intersex individual

and more!

Join us for a riveting show and learn to be an ally in everyone’s fight to be allowed to be different. Because like it or not, we all are. Once you accept that we are all different, every single living thing on this planet - different, suddenly there are no walls, there is no such thing as exclusion (exclusion from what?) and there’s a lot of room in the world. What are your thoughts? Join me on What’s On Yo Mind? At the start of the show and tell us, What’s On Yo Mind? By calling in 657-383-0031 or email me with your thoughts and I’ll read them on the show.

In Bed with Dr Sue is joined by the lovely Evil Opal, purveyor of slippery, sensual caresses around your extremities with these centuries-old textiles.

The thought of silk and satin brings to mind Egyptian tents with beautifully adorned women in these brightly coloured, soft, wafts of cloth.

Opal will tell us how she got into being a 'textile-o-phile,' and how she incorporated that into her BDSM life.

She'll be teaching us about:

Versatility & Practicality - of these textiles

-Different textures

-Silk fetish attire

-The ease of silk scarvesSymbolism - the history & archetypes of silk

-The symbolism of silk with power and wealth among many others

-Spider Silk

-Historical and regional costuming including; saris, kimonos and goddess drapesSensuality - all the lovely ways to use silk in kinky play

-Bondage

-Mummification

-Sensation Play

-Fetish attire

So bring your notebooks nuggets because class is in session and there's a lot to learn. Whether you're professional or you want to incorporate some sensation play in your bedroom you don't want to miss this very informative show.

This is also your chance to call in if you LOVE Opal. If you have always wanted to profess your love or simply ask her some questions about her admiration of silk and satin we'll be waiting to hear from you.

Call-in the night of the show: 657-383-0031

We’ve all been there. We’ve all been scammed in some way on the internet and unfortunately, it happens in our little kinky neck of the internet world as well.

Because of that, I’ve decided to wake all of you up to some of the common scams that are geared to the BDSM online world. Join Ashley Jill and me December 19 at 10pm ET for this very frank discussion that may piss some people off but… you know me.

What marketing scams are being used on DommesWhat horrifying scams are being used on subsWhat to look for and what to RUN FROM when you’re searching for a Domme to serveand so much MORE!

If you’ve been scammed in BDSM online I WANT TO HEAR YOUR STORY. Please CALL IN the night of the show 657-383-0031

The delicious aroma of fresh, out-of-the-box pair of leather stiletto shoes.

The glimpse of buttery softness your fingers get as you slide the zipper up her leather thigh-high boots.

The gleam of the light as it hits her curves in the freshly polished, latex, little black dress.

The feel of the rubber glove as it clamps over your mouth and her breath as she whispers in your ear, “you’re fucked!”

BDSM and leather is so cliché it makes even the best of us roll our eyes but if we move away from the stereotype and into the realm of fetish you find that whether it’s leather, rubber, latex, vinyl, velvet or feathers sensation play is a huge part of the BDSM and fetish realm and we’re going to explore sensation play with both Mistress VQ and Leatherfreak.

Mistress VQ is a professional dominatrix who uses all of these items in her craft in both her wardrobe and as part of the services she offers submissives. We’ll talk to Mistress VQ about how she incorporates sensation play in her art.

We’ll also be chatting with Leatherfreak who will be giving us the submissive’s point-of-view. We’ll talk to LF about his enjoyment of not just the feel and smell of leather but the intense bondage aspect of being encased in it as well.

Join us the night of the show and if you have a love of leather or other amazing sensations give us a call the night of the show 657-383-0031