When growing in faith we forget that to fully transform into the children the Lord has called us to be we have to be isolated from the world and that means being lonley for a while. Often we feal unappreciated or feel lack of love because we haven't experienced love from ourselves but most importantly, we haven't found love within the Lord. As long as he continues to be our priority our lack of love won't matter because as long as we love the Lord and the person, he has made us nobody else's affection matters.