On this episode of IMHO we talk about Code switching . The most defined meaning states that. Coding is shifting from one code language or dialect to another, depending on the social context or conversational setting. But what do we switch the style up? What does society think of code switching outside of it’s actual meaning? Is it fake are you being fake ? Although code switchin is not vigianlty and respectively talked about it happens more than we know and more than we actively precieve it. Some of us overtly use code switching in everyday life and some of us just use it and never even notice how we are switchin up just to stay in the room actively. So lets urbanize this and switch it up for better understanding. Code switching-can be inadvertent, we do it to fit in with our peers, we want to fit in or we may just want to secretly say something to or friend by switching up our style or word dialect using slang or maybe it helps you convey a thought for better understanding. No matter how you do it or when you do it. It happens do you switch up when necessary?

We wanted to reflect on relationships growth and the way people are connected. Sometimes despite how close you are or how far apart you may seem from people you care about the most.Communication good understanding and trust seems to always play a role in how well a relationship works. The intensity of how much you put into any relationship from family friendships ,lovers ,to nemesis usually tells a lot about a person. How do you think relationships work?

On this episode of IMHO, we jumped on the topic of dating up and dating down. Do we in the dating world decide on how we pick a partner based on what we value within their character? Dating up could be because of growth or what you see attainable in the situation. But dating down could come with how one may feel inferior of our mate possibly.Or are we just trying to get what we can get or get and settling for whatever we can get? Should the term just be considered irrelevant? Think about it, How do you date?

Our topic this episode we decided to indulge into the topic of hate.Although hate is usually defined as to feel an intense or passionate dislike usually for someone or thing.Hating in Ebonic terms is widespread popular and enjoyable for many not just because of dislike,but more so because of the gratification many get from the intense feelings and ego boost people endure with the purpose of putting putting someone else down.Whats your definition?

Should the things aim for and the execution we use to obtain our achievements always be considered success or are they just favorable outcomes of our goals that we’ve executed how do you measure success.

Most of us use social media daily .However with social media and lack of actual social interactions some become more adapt to intertwine two realities real life and social media life then being dependent on our profiles basing our feelings conversations and activities on interactive socializing rather actual social interactions alternating our beliefs. Leading many to lack the ability to differentiate what’s real and what’s not!

childhood trauma affects lots of people. In hindsight some of us don't know until later, how our childhood and its affects have psychologically staggered the Life choices we make and how we react and deal with social interactions and life in general.