Ever wondered if your dating preferences are setting traps instead of opening doors? In this episode, we tackle the quirky puzzle of attraction, focusing on age and those irresistible traits that catch our eye. Dating in your early 30s comes with its own challenges, with a pool that includes both fresh-faced late 20-somethings and the more seasoned men in their early 40s. Marissa and Nikki dive into how societal norms shape our choices and why being open-minded can lead to surprising discoveries. Whether it's the allure of tall men or the energy of a younger man, they challenge you to wonder what truly attracts you and encourage a little adventure in love along the way.

They share the importance of self-love, spill amusing dating anecdotes, and tackle dating types and preferences. 
• Meet our special guest, Marissa 
• The hilarious and unexpected DM serenade story 
• Importance of self-care and filling our cups 
• The concept of a cuddle alarm and its significance 
• Navigating preferences in age and types 
• Emphasizing humor in awkward dating moments 
• Staying true to one's standards while casual dating 
• Encouragement to engage in self-love, especially around Valentine's Day

Join Nikki as she kicks off the new year with a lighthearted reflection on silly NYE  expectations and the happiness found in valuing friendships over romantic pursuits. Listen in on her personal story of a casual, yet fulfilling, girls' night that leads to an unexpected NYE reconnection, proving that stepping out of your comfort zone might just be the best resolution yet. 

Laugh with Nikki through the unpredictable world of dating mishaps. Imagine a sports bar date, an unexpected fixation on coupons, and a peculiar obsession with leftover ranch dressing—what could possibly go wrong? Giggle along as she shares these comical dating disasters and the importance of good pre-date FaceTime chat to avoid mismatches. 

Here’s to 2025, self-care, positive intentions, and nurturing the bonds we cherish for a vibrant year ahead.

Let’s shake the first date jitters and transform them into confident excitement. In our latest episode, we unravel the magic of authenticity and self-assurance as key ingredients for a successful first date mindset. You'll hear a personal tale about how my choice of a "first date song" inspires confidence and how openly expressing desires—like seeking a partner with "big dick energy"—can surprisingly lead to meaningful connections. We ponder the all-too-common habit of "future tripping," urging listeners to stay grounded and realistic as they navigate new romantic possibilities.

As cuffing season approaches, the quest for companionship takes center stage. Discover tips for gearing up for first dates with flair—think outfits that highlight your best features and personal style, mixed with an empowering anthem to set the tone. From the perfect pair of jeans to a friend's enviable turtleneck collection, we celebrate the power of self-expression in the dating world.

Our conversation isn't just for the singles out there—it's a heartfelt invitation for anyone at any stage of their romantic life to engage with the ups and downs of dating. We explore the thrill of meeting new people and the adventure of finding someone who truly adds value to your life. Whether you're a couple, flying solo, or somewhere in between, this episode is your supportive companion as you navigate the ever-evolving landscape of love. Join us next week when a special guest brings even more excitement to our ongoing discussion.

After navigating the emotional rollercoaster of a breakup, stepping back into the dating scene can feel incredibly overwhelming. I share my personal struggles and victories in this new chapter. Whether it's a swift return to dating apps or a deliberate pause for self-healing, there's no universal path to moving on. 
 It's about more than just finding someone; it's about finding someone who enriches your life and shares your vision for the future.
With stories of unexpectedly joyful dates and reminders that dating can be an enlightening experience, I encourage approaching each opportunity with an open mind and a “we’ll see” mentality. Amidst navigating breakups, I underline the importance of leaning on friends and family for support, turning to them for shared laughter and healing. 

Ever wondered how to make dating fun again, even after a long-term relationship? Join me, Nikki Anderson, as I kick off "In Our Dating Era" by sharing my personal story of re-entering the dating scene post-divorce. This episode is all about creating a supportive, fun, and vibrant community for women in their late 20s and early 30s, who are navigating the sometimes tumultuous waters of modern dating. We’re not here to give you cookie-cutter advice; rather, we’ll focus on empowering you to evaluate potential partners while recognizing your own worth. Through humorous and heartfelt narratives, you'll see that you're not alone in this journey.

But that's just the beginning. We also delve into the essential topic of healing after a breakup and approaching new relationships with a clear, confident mindset. Are you looking for something casual, serious, or simply open to possibilities? Having clarity on your intentions is a game-changer. We talk about how dating evolves at different life stages and emphasize that it should always be fun and fulfilling. Expect diverse and enriching conversations with friends and special guests, who will share their own crazy, entertaining, and insightful dating stories. Welcome to our era of dating—it's going to be a wild ride!