In Real Life With Ellie & Ross

By Ellie Gonsalves and Ross Scutts

IRL with married duo Ellie Gonsalves & Ross Scutts delves into thought-provoking perspectives and experiences on what it means to live life your way. Each series tackles some of life's most compel... more

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How many episodes does In Real Life With Ellie & Ross have?

The podcast currently has 28 episodes available.

In Real Life With Ellie & Ross episodes:

November 17, 2024 Ep 8: 15+ Years of Love, Connection & Lessons: Our Relationship Blueprint
How do you build a relationship that lasts over 15 years, through life’s curveballs, loss, career chaos, and even feeding crocodiles? Ellie and Ross are sharing their personal blueprint for love, trust, and partnership in this juicy, laugh-out-loud episode of IRL with Ellie & Ross.

What’s Inside This Episode:
• How They Got Together: From a high school flirtation to falling head over heels two years later, discover how fate—and Ellie’s BS claim about her “fashion business goals”—ignited their love story.
• Why Marriage Took Forever: Career ambitions, personal heartbreaks, and Ross’s unwavering patience (yes, he held onto a ring deposit for years) finally led to the big moment.
• The Proposal You’ll Replay: Crocodiles, the Irwin family, and an unforgettable day at Australia Zoo.. this was not the day Ellie had originally planned but turned out to be even better.
• Laying the Foundations: the secrets behind dodging communication disasters and cultivating real understanding
• Respecting Differences: How to embrace and even celebrate your partner’s quirks—even when they drive you crazy sometimes
• Building Trust and Vulnerability: Why these two go hand in hand and how they’ve strengthened Ellie and Ross’s bond over the years.
• Creating a Shared Vision: Tips for crafting a future together that fuels both your dreams and your relationship goals.

From non-negotiables to deep dives into what love really means, this episode is a blend of heartfelt advice, wild stories, and tips to help strengthen your own relationships or be clear on before you enter into one.

Spoiler: They’re answering the big question: What does it really take to make love last?

So whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this episode is packed with relatable moments, real honesty, and lessons that helped Ellie and Ross find love and keep it.

Share your thoughts with Ellie and Ross via voice note

Keep up with the latest on:
Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@irlwithus
TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@irlwithus

Want to partner? Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

Produced by Fōcl Media: https://foclmedia.com.au/
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1h 11min
November 10, 2024 Ep 7: Navigating Grief & Loss: Connecting with Our Dads with David the Medium
In this final episode of Grief & Loss, Ellie and Ross invite special guest, David the Medium, to see if they can connect with their dads while exploring the mysteries of the afterlife.

Have you ever wondered what happens after we pass? Can
spirits really communicate with us, and if so, how? Do our loved ones still find ways to be with us, even after they’re gone? If these questions have ever crossed your mind, you’re not alone — and this episode is for you.

David the Medium brings a unique and powerful
perspective as he attempts to connect Ellie and Ross with their dads. Offering a profound insight into the world of
spirits, the afterlife, and the healing power of these connections Ellie and Ross explore this together, Ellie with open arms, Ross with a skeptical view, but both with open minds.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
•           The Mysteries of the Afterlife: What happens after we pass? David shares his insights into the spiritual realm.
•           How Spirits Communicate with Us: From signs to synchronicities, David explains how spirits connect with the living, and how we can stay open to these messages
from the other side.
•           The Role of a Medium: What does it mean to be a medium, and how can their work bridge the gap between the living and the dead? David reveals how these spiritual connections offer comfort, peace, and healing.
•           A Personal Journey of Connection
& Healing: With David's guidance, Ellie and Ross explore the deep emotional healing that can come from connecting with their fathers — and how these connections have helped them navigate their grief.

This episode is a deeply emotional, spiritual, and
healing conversation that might just change the way you view life, death, and the possibility of connection beyond this world.

Share your thoughts with Ellie and Ross via voice
note: ⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/irlwithus

Keep up with the latest on:
Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/irlwithus⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@irlwithus⁠⁠⁠⁠

Want to partner?
Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/⁠⁠
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1h 19min
November 03, 2024Ep 6: Navigating Grief & Loss: Ellie’s Breaking Point & Ross’ Heartbreaking Journey
Join Ellie and Ross as they discuss the intense and often unspoken realities of grief. In this second part of the three-part series 'Navigating Grief & Loss', Ross shares the devastating impact of losing his father to cancer and how it reshaped his life and his bond with Ellie. Ellie opens up about hitting an unimaginable low after her father’s passing, facing choices and moments that would forever change her. Together, they dive into the brutal highs and lows of loss, revealing how grief can push us to our limits and transform us in ways we’d never expect.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
The Unfiltered Truth About Grief: Shock, anger, denial, and finally acceptance—Ellie and Ross let us in on their whirlwind of emotions and the personal battles they faced. With the help of counselor Albert, they uncover how grief can strip you bare before guiding you to a new sense of self.

A Life-Changing Moment: After her father’s death, Ellie spiraled to an unimaginable low, confronted by choices she never thought she’d face. Overwhelmed by sadness and depression, she found herself at a breaking point that would forever change her approach to grief — and to survival.

Hard-Won Wisdom on Healing: Ross shares the process that helped him face his loss — real truths about the importance of speaking up, seeking therapy, and finding ways to process pain in your own way. His story may be just what someone needs to begin their own journey toward healing.

Family Pressure & Responsibility: Losing his father forced Ross into a role he didn’t choose in ways no one could prepare you for. With courage and candor, he describes the weight of financial and legal duties that came crashing down, forever altering his understanding of family and duty.

Join Ellie and Ross as they uncover the messy, painful, but ultimately transformative journey of grief. You might just find insights, comfort, or a new perspective that helps you on your own path.

Share your thoughts with Ellie and Ross via voice note: ⁠ https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus
Keep up with the latest on:
Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/irlwithus⁠⁠⁠
TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@irlwithus⁠⁠⁠

Want to partner?
Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠⁠⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/⁠⁠
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1h 19min
October 27, 2024Ep 5: Navigating Grief & Loss: Ellie's Journey “God Forgives, I don’t”
In "Ellie's Journey Through Loss," the first episode of our poignant three-part series on Navigating Grief and Loss, Ellie bravely shares her personal story following the heartbreaking suicide of her father. Join Ellie and Ross as they delve into the profound effects this loss has had on their lives.

In this deeply reflective episode, we’re exploring:
Heartfelt Memories: Ellie shares powerful stories that illuminate the special bond she had with her dad and the unforgettable moments that shaped their relationship.
The Shocking Call: Experience the gut-wrenching details of the phone call that changed everything, and the emotional chaos that ensued.
Tools for Survival: Discover how self-help and wellness practices became lifelines for Ellie and Ross, providing unexpected strength in the face of unspeakable grief.
Navigating the Aftermath: Get raw and real about the challenges of planning a funeral, seeking counseling, and piecing life back together after loss.

This isn’t just a recounting of tragedy; it’s an invitation to engage in meaningful conversations about grief and healing.

We encourage you to listen and share your thoughts with us via voice note: ⁠ https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus

Keep up with the latest on:
Instagram
TikTok

Want to partner with us?
Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/⁠⁠
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1h 12min
October 21, 2024Ep 4: Our Childfree Choice: The Final Word, Your Questions, Our Reflections, & Hypotheticals
In "The Final Word: Your Questions, Our Reflections, & Hypotheticals," we’re closing out our "Our Childfree Choice" series with an episode that that asks the big what ifs. Get ready for candid listener feedback and heated discussions that explore the realities of choosing a childfree life.

In this explosive finale, we’re tackling:
Your burning questions, from what would we do if Ellie was to fall pregnant, embryo freezing and the fear of aging without kids
Our reactions to listener comments that shine a light on the pressures surrounding parenthood
Hypothetical scenarios that could make us rethink everything
The truth about navigating a partner’s desire for kids when you’re set against it

This isn’t just a wrap-up; it’s a call to engage in the conversations that matter! We want to hear from you—send us your thoughts and feedback via voice note: ⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus⁠

Don’t miss out on this thought-provoking conclusion!

Keep up with the latest on:
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Want to partner with us? Contact: ⁠[email protected]⁠

Produced by Fōcl Media ⁠https://foclmedia.com.au/
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1h 9min
October 13, 2024Ep 3: Our Childfree Choice: Do We Hate Kids? Ross’ List, Gender Expectations & What Society Expects
In 'Perspectives and Expectations', we delve deep into the complexities of choosing a childfree life. Get ready for Ross' brutally honest take on the viral '117 Reasons' list, and we discuss hidden pressures faced by men, women, and couples. From laugh-out-loud moments to hard-hitting truths, this episode is your front-row seat to the conversation everyone's talking about but few dare to have.

In this episode, we're getting into:
Ross' perspective on the '117 Reasons to Remain Childfree' list
The stark differences in expectations for men vs. women when it comes to having children
Insights from public figures like Elon Musk, Jordan Peterson and John Cena on the topic
Unpacking the age-old question: Is choosing not to have kids selfish?
Clarifying why our choice doesn't mean we dislike children

We would love to hear your questions, thoughts and feedback. Send us a voice note: ⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus⁠

Keep up with the latest on:
Instagram
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Want to partner with us? Contact: [email protected]

Produced by Fōcl Media https://foclmedia.com.au/
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57min
October 09, 2024Ep 2: Our Childfree Choice: Facing Backlash, Haters, Supporters, and Our Top 3 Reasons
In 'Our Childfree Journey: Facing Backlash, Haters, Supporters, and Our Top 3 Reasons'; we dive headfirst into the storm that followed Ellie’s ‘117 Reasons to Remain Childfree’ list. From praise and support to intense backlash, the reactions were explosive. We also unpack our top 3 reasons why we each want to live a child free life.

In this episode, we’re getting into:
The wide range of reactions – reading the heartwarming support to the outright hate we received
The most talked-about controversial reasons from the list
Sharing how we’ve navigated the 'controversy'
Discuss the common criticisms breakdown the 'you're selfish' responses
Unpack what our top 3 reasons and experiences that lead to this decision

We would love to hear your questions, thoughts and feedback.. send us a voice note: https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus

Keep up with the latest on:
Instagram
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Want to partner with us? Contact: [email protected]

Produced by Fōcl Media
https://foclmedia.com.au/
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1h 11min
October 06, 2024 Ep 1: Our Childfree Choice Ellie’s 117 Reasons to Remain Childfree, the List That Divided the Internet
Welcome to the first episode of "IN REAL LIFE with Ellie & Ross”. Diving deep into a topic that sparks plenty of conversation: the choice to live childfree. Ellie shares her list of 117 REASONS TO REMAIN CHILDFREE and what lead us to make this decision.

In this episode, we discuss:
- motivations for this podcast series
- why the ‘117 reasons to remain child free’ list was created and then shared publicly
- what personal experiences shaped this decision.
- the mixed reactions we have received—from supportive messages to some of the hateful criticisms.
- how do you answer the loaded question 'Do you want kids?'

Whether you’re childfree, a parent puzzled by those who aren’t, or still undecided – this series will challenge everything you think you know.

We would love to hear your questions, thoughts and feedback.. send us a voice note: https://www.speakpipe.com/Irlwithus

Keep up with the latest on:
Instagram
TikTok

Want to partner with us? Contact: [email protected]

Produced by Fōcl Media
https://foclmedia.com.au/
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50min

FAQs about In Real Life With Ellie & Ross:

How many episodes does In Real Life With Ellie & Ross have?

The podcast currently has 28 episodes available.