This week of In the Den we dissect a clip from Fresh and Fit to open up the dialogue. What effects are colorisms still playing in the minds of black men and women when choosing partners? Should we still allow gender roles to dictate our actions in the modern society? Making the switch from Bi to the hetero side is more interesting than you might imagine. Tune in!

This week the Pod is back for the end of the year finale and it’s only fitting we start off with the recap. G Money tells her crazy poly story. We discuss proper dildo cleaning etiquette, is she peeing, or squirting? Gender and pronouns brings up the infamous moment when the conversation switch to robot people? How would you feel about your partner putting you on an allowance?

     In this episode of In The Den the topics get a little tense, but then we get back to the fun. The conversations start off with a trigger warning as we touch on the recent story involving a Baltimore man that committed a double homicide, and then gave a play by play on social media. (03:09) Which leads us to the topic of breaking points and open pandoras box of questions. Is breaking points a natural defensive mechanism to keep us in alignment? (13:09) Have you ever had to step away from a relationship or friendship because you felt someone pushing you to your own breaking point? (31:43) What is "lesbian bed death?" (25:11) Is it sexual harassment when it's your partner in the relationship or is it fair game? When it comes to gift exchanges. (38:30) Should people tell you what they want or should you just know?

The Den gets straight to it this week. Have you ever been dating someone and then when it’s time to meet the family you are introduced as a “friend?” Do you need to set a time limit before you take that next step in the relationship? Is it immaturity or responsible adulting? I mean really what’s the difference. Just remember to protect your energy!

The Den gets straight to it this week. Have you ever been dating someone and then when it’s time to meet the family you are introduced as a “friend?” Do you need to set a time limit before you take that next step in the relationship? Is it immaturity or responsible adulting? I mean really what’s the difference. Just remember to protect your energy

During this episode of In The Den  we discuss the underlying animosity that exist between dominant women. Why can't we accept each other? Why are we so territorial when it comes to our partners? Could there actually be attraction between dominant women? We even discuss stud for stud relationships, and what is a switch anyway? Why can't we all must get along.

During this episode we discuss what do you do when you see red flags. Why do we ignore them? What is a non-negotiable for you? We all give our red flag stories and what we've learned from those experiences.

On this weeks's episode we have special guest, Coach Bon to discuss her famous skit "step daddy D*ke." As always we discuss love and relationships. So tune in this is an especially great episode for us dominant women that love taking care of other people kids.

During this week's episode we discuss the reasons why homosexual men find dominant women attractive. Eww gross we knowlol. We argue if body counts matter and of course GeVeezy has a lot of bi perspective on the topic.

During this episode we discuss the meanings of "no label" and "aggressive fem". Our guest host provides clarity on gender norms and identity while me and Heather struggle to understand the new lingo. Brittany and Geveezy chime in with their non-binary opinions. Throughout the show we discuss the challenges dominant lesbians face when dating aggressive fems. This episode provides insight and education on gender identity and how the heteronormative mindset needs to change.