Summary

This episode of 'In the Name of Service' features a conversation about personal experiences with suicidal ideation and the importance of addressing mental health struggles. The guests, Brandon, Leslie, and Evan, share their own stories and discuss the impact of humility, love, and connection in overcoming these challenges. They emphasize the need for support, faith, and engaging in activities that bring joy and healing.

The conversation highlights the complexity of suicide and the importance of reaching out to others who may be struggling. This conversation explores the themes of feeling worthless, the tactic of isolation, the experience of suicidal thoughts, finding hope and purpose, helping others combat this enemy, personal experience with loss and helping others, the impact of tragedy, the multifaceted nature of the battle, combatting lies and finding community, continuing the conversation, and the assurance of God's presence.

Takeaways

Feeling worthless and isolated is a common experience for those struggling with mental health issues. The tactic of isolation is used by the enemy to make individuals feel alone and helpless. Sharing personal experiences of struggle and recovery can help others find hope and purpose. Community and support from others are essential in combating the enemy and finding healing. Reading and studying the Scriptures can provide depth and understanding in the journey of faith.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:58 Personal Experiences with Suicidal Ideation

12:18 The Importance of Humility and Love

18:15 The Power of Connection and Reaching Out

22:10 Finding Rest and Joy in Faith

25:44 Lessons Learned from Personal Struggles

30:28 The Impact of Pride and the Need for Support

37:13 The Role of Outdoor Activities in Healing

46:59 The Importance of Faith, Service, and Passion

47:28 Understanding the Complexity of Suicide

50:12 Feeling Worthless and Isolated

51:08 The Tactic of Isolation

52:07 The Experience of Suicidal Thoughts

53:35 Finding Hope and Purpose

54:34 Helping Others Combat the Enemy

54:50 Personal Experience with Loss and Helping Others

55:20 The Tragic Loss of a Brother

56:17 The Devastating News and Tragedy

57:45 The Spiral of Addiction and Loss

59:10 The Impact of Tragedy on Family

01:00:08 Recognizing the Call to Ministry

01:01:38 The Importance of Humility and Personal Experience

01:04:04 The Impact of Brokenness in Ministry

01:05:50 The Multifaceted Nature of the Battle

01:06:25 Combatting Lies and Finding Community

01:08:28 Contact Information

01:09:19 Continuing the Conversation

Summary

Dr. Graham Danzer, a forensic criminal and clinical psychologist, shares his journey and experiences in the field of psychology. He discusses his background, inspiration, and the challenges he has faced. Dr. Danzer also talks about the importance of cross-training with law enforcement and the need for psychologists to be more involved in the field. He offers advice for those interested in pursuing a career in psychology and serving in high-risk environments.

Takeaways

• Psychologists in high-risk environments, such as forensic and criminal psychology, face unique challenges and require specialized training.
• Cross-training with law enforcement can provide valuable insights and skills for psychologists working in high-risk settings.
• Psychologists should be proactive in seeking mentorship and learning opportunities to enhance their knowledge and skills.
• There is a need for psychologists to be more involved in law enforcement and other high-risk fields to better serve individuals and make a positive impact.

Chapters

00:00Introduction

01:02Background and Inspiration

04:29Forensic Criminal and Clinical Psychology

08:03Challenges and Frustrations in the Field

14:04Becoming a Psychologist

16:08Difficulties and Obstacles in the Career

18:42Dealing with Loneliness and Isolation

20:52Cross-Training with Law Enforcement

29:04Pipeline for Psychologists in Law Enforcement

32:46Preparing for a Career in Service

38:35Advice for Those Wanting to Serve

41:16Conclusion

Please welcome Jeff Marriott, Veteran and Co-Founder of Vet's Retreat Virginia. Vet's Retreat Virginia is a three-year-old nonprofit organization that focuses on military, first responder, and family health and wellness. They provide peer-to-peer support and organize events and activities in the areas of entertainment and athletics. The organization aims to create a safe space for veterans and first responders to come together and support each other. They also offer resources and referrals for more specialized needs. The team behind Vet's Retreat Virginia is dedicated to their mission and is working towards establishing a 24-hour operations center. They rely on word of mouth and community involvement to spread awareness and provide support.

Takeaways

• Everyone has something positive to offer. All you need is a willing heart.
• Small things matter like taking down barriers such giving someone a ride to an event or medical appointment or sharing resources with Veterans who may not be online.
• Vet's Retreat Virginia provides peer-to-peer support and organizes events and activities for veterans and first responders.
• The organization aims to create a safe space for individuals to come together and support each other.
• Vet's Retreat Virginia offers resources and referrals for more specialized needs.
• The team behind Vet's Retreat Virginia is dedicated to their mission and is working towards establishing a 24-hour operations center.
• Their 24hr peer-to-peer support line is 1-888-906-4593.

Summary

In this episode, Dr. Barb Thompson interviews Michael Halterman, a former Marine infantryman and special operations veteran. Michael shares his journey from a small town in California to serving in the military and transitioning to civilian life. He discusses the challenges he faced, including ego, addiction, and the search for purpose. Michael also highlights the importance of gratitude and the work he does with The Honor Foundation and their newest program, Vector Accelerator, to support veterans in their transition. This conversation explores the complexities of military service and the ongoing process of finding meaning and fulfillment in life after service. Michael discusses the changing world order and the challenges it presents, the difficulty of finding truth in a world filled with noise, the importance of answering the call to serve, and concludes with gratitude and excitement for future endeavors. You can reach out to Michael on LinkedIn by searching Michael G. Halterman.

Takeaways

Transitioning from military to civilian life is a complex process that goes beyond a checklist of tasks.

Challenges such as ego, addiction, and the search for purpose can impede personal growth and hinder successful transition.

Practicing gratitude can have a profound impact on one's mindset and overall well-being.

Support programs like The Honor Foundation and Vector Accelerator play a crucial role in helping veterans navigate the transition process and find meaning in their post-military lives. The world order is changing rapidly, with new technologies and contested global norms.

Finding signal from noise is increasingly difficult, but essential for navigating the complexities of the modern world.

Answering the call to serve, in any capacity, can lead to a fulfilling and impactful life.

Gratitude and excitement for the future are important attitudes to maintain.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:32 Meeting Michael Halterman

02:00 Michael's Background

03:29 Joining the Marines Infantry

04:22 First Combat Experience

06:19 Standout Experience

07:29 Influences in Upbringing

08:46 Challenges Faced

11:25 The Power of Struggle

12:13 Transitioning to Civilian Life

14:22 Worldview After Military Service

16:19 Challenges Faced During Service

17:42 Dealing with Ego

19:53 Reflecting on Personal Challenges

21:45 The Importance of Gratitude

23:27 The Honor Foundation and Vector Accelerator

29:07 The Challenges of Transition

37:19 The Changing World Order

39:47 Finding Signal from Noise

41:16 Answering the Call to Serve

43:30 Conclusion

In this episode, Dr. Barb Thompson interviews Ashley Windle, a former Air Force member, about his military career and personal experiences. Ashley shares his journey from being a vehicle maintenance technician to becoming a first sergeant. He reflects on the sacrifices and rewards of service, as well as the challenges of navigating leadership roles. Ashley also discusses the importance of coping with difficult experiences and recognizing signs of struggle. Additionally, he shares the story behind his business, Monkey Collective (@monkey_collective on IG), which combines his passion for military members and sewing. Ashley shares his journey of starting Monkey Collective and how it has become a way for him to have fun, make people happy, and give back to other non-profit organizations. The name Monkey Collective holds a special meaning for Ashley, representing his love for monkeys and the idea of a collaborative community. Through Monkey Collective, Ashley has connected with people from all over the world and found support and friendship. He encourages others to be open to opportunities and have faith in the process of finding their own calling.

Takeaways

Service in the military requires sacrifice and selflessness, but it also offers the opportunity to make a difference and be part of something bigger.

Leadership roles in the military often come with great responsibility and require navigating relationships and making tough decisions.

Coping with difficult experiences and recognizing signs of struggle is crucial for maintaining mental and emotional well-being.

Finding creative outlets and pursuing personal passions can provide a sense of fulfillment and contribute to overall happiness. Find something that you enjoy and want to serve in, and use it as a way to give back and make a positive impact.

Building a community and connecting with others who share similar experiences and passions can be incredibly rewarding.

Be open to opportunities and have faith in the process of discovering your purpose and making a difference.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

00:58 Meeting Ashley Wendell

02:00 Ashley's Background and Air Force Career

06:22 Influences from Childhood

09:31 Decision to Join the Air Force

10:42 Reflection on Military Experience

19:49 Sacrifice and Reward of Service

23:50 Navigating Leadership Roles

30:54 Coping with Difficult Experiences

34:08 Recognizing Signs of Struggle

44:08 Creation of Monkey Collective

47:26 Starting Monkey Collective

48:14 Donating and Giving Back

49:00 The Meaning Behind Monkey Collective

50:25 Connecting with Others

51:24 Advice for Those Who Want to Serve

53:03 Having Faith in the Process

54:06 The Impact of the Podcast

55:22 Encouraging Others to Take Action

In this inspiring episode of "In the Name of Service," I had the pleasure of speaking with Abi Ray, a licensed marriage and family therapist, founder and editor-in-chief of Legacy Magazine, and a military spouse. Abi and I reminisced about our time working together on what we both consider one of the greatest teams on earth. Her unique contributions to our team were invaluable, and her dedication to serving military families through her work is truly commendable.

We also discussed the challenges and rewards of being a military spouse, emphasizing the importance of community and the shared experiences that forge deep connections. She spoke candidly about the uncertainty that comes with military life and how she learned to anchor her identity in core values rather than job titles or roles. We touched on the emotional toll of working with individuals facing loss and hardship, and Abi highlighted the honor of being invited into someone's vulnerability. She stressed the importance of self-care and the transformative power of enduring grief with others.

Don't miss this incredible episode of the "In the Name of Service" podcast. Abi's story will leave you inspired and motivated to make a difference. Join me to this episode of In The Name of Service podcast as I share the stories of these amazing individuals.

Connect with Abi Ray:

Website: https://www.legacymagazine.org/pages/about-us

In this inspiring episode, I had the privilege of interviewing Ryan Teubner, a dear friend from middle school. He is a Producer at Rich & Cartmill. Ryan has always been a shining light, radiating love and encouragement to everyone around him. His story truly embodies the spirit of service and making a difference.

We discuss Ryan's upbringing in Stillwater, Oklahoma, his close connections with Alton Carter and John Dodson, and how these relationships have influenced his personal and professional life. We also touch on Ryan's passion for his work in the insurance industry, despite its negative connotations, and his commitment to helping others. Ryan discusses the challenge of comparing oneself to others. He acknowledges that many people fall into this trap, ultimately leading to negative outcomes. He emphasizes the importance of cultivating the right mindset to overcome this challenge.

Tune in to this inspiring episode of In the Name of Service to hear Ryan Teubner’s incredible story of resilience and dedication.

If you want to connect with Ryan, here is his contact information:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-teubner-cic-b5ab32b/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/RyanTeubner

In this episode, I am joined by John Hamilton who worked as Air Force Special Operations PJ and now runs his own business. Hamilton opens up about his childhood, growing up with a father who was a decorated Vietnam veteran. He shares his desire to fill his father's shoes and how he ended up joining the military. Hamilton discusses his interest in helicopters and medicine and his decision to not become a 68 Whiskey. He also emphasizes the importance of implementing military skills, such as organizational structures, into his business. Listening to John's interview reminded me of the importance of finding our "why" and striving to make a difference in the world. His advice on gratitude and reflection really resonated with me. It's incredible to see how far he has come.

Tune in to the "In the Name of Service" podcast to hear John Hamilton's incredible journey and gain insights into the mindset of those who serve at the highest level. You will want to watch this episode!

If you want to connect with John, here are her contact information:

Instagram: @invested_in_realestate

Today, I will introduce Amanda Hoenes, whom I was introduced to through Sabrina Stringfield. Sabrina is an amazing social worker with whom I had the privilege of working for a few years at my previous unit. Amanda Hoenes, an author, adventurer, entrepreneur, and United States Marine, has learned valuable lessons about facing fears, overcoming obstacles, and achieving success. From a small town in Missouri to various adventures worldwide, Amanda's experiences have shaped her into a resilient individual who embraces growth both personally and professionally. This incredible journey taught her the importance of perseverance, patience, faith, and hard work.

Listen in as Amanda Hoenes shares her Marine Corps experiences, including deployments to Iraq, as a woman in a male-dominated field. She discusses the challenges faced and lessons learned during the journey.

If you want to connect with Amanda, here are her contact information:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-hoenes/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/AmandaHoenes

Website: https://www.amandahoenes.com/

• Success lies in utilizing available resources and managing stress effectively.
• Seeking help early is now seen as a proactive measure.
• It takes courage to recognize when help is needed.
• Utilizing resources and support enables effective stress management.
• Communication provides manifold benefits like improved sleep and problem-solving.
• Talking freely in a non-judgmental environment has a profound impact on wellbeing.