Our baby is turning 1 this week!!!!!! The Toulons talk about the journey of starting a podcast and what they have learned from the guest on the show.

Hit us up with what you have taken away from the podcast and maybe what you would like to see in going into the next year of our journey.

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This week have another first, Dee is a married but telling his journey solo because he is currently go through a divorce. Dee is hurting and hoping that his current situation will help someone before its too late. Taking us through two marriages, the hurdles of the current marriage, stress of the load of life taking him to a low place, turning it all to God, and how going to counseling may help him save his marriage.....to be continued.

Please check out Dee professionally on instagram at @tripleakustom

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For our 50th episode, we celebrate with my messy web of mess..lol

In the Trenches this week, Ralph takes us on a very messy journey of what she went through before meeting Touly and a little after meeting Touly. From the drama of long distance lovers, cheating, small franks, and more. How this tiring journey brought her to the alter of asking God to not send anyone else her way unless they were for her...Enters Touly..lol

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Already in the Trenches, Touly gives his testimony of his life before Ralph. Touly take us on the journey of how trying to do the right thing can go so wrong. How not staying true to yourself, listening to loved one, and taking time for yourself can end very badly for all parties involved. Touly tells of the lessons he has learned and in hopes that hearings his story, you too will not go down the same path he did.

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The episodes comes to an end with Ralph telling us how at the end of it all, he wouldn't change anything if he had to do it over again. That anyone in his position, wanting to get married but its been a long road, get to really know self. You may feel like damaged good, but the dented cans get bought too. Don't focus on being damaged, but being better.

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Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons is special guest and father, Ralph. Yes big Ralph, lol. Part 1 of this episode, Big Ralph talks about what it was like dating while being a basketball player, musician, and dj, outlook on dating then and the start of having children.

Stay tuned to see if the party is really over in part 2

Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons this week is married therapists, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Herdyne Mercier. Together 15years and married 12, these two are making it a point to help you grow. You will hear their journey to the jumping the broom, starting Mercier Wellness and Consulting, and their branding. 

You can find them at:

Podcast - The Couples Counsel on all podcast platforms

website -http://mercierwellness.com

facebook - https://www.facebook.com/DrJamesonMercier

Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMwNs4gy3jW-t6hCX58De_w

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.jamesonmercier/

https://www.instagram.com/thewifementor/ https://www.instagram.com/manfident/ 

This episode, we have another author joining us in the trenches by the name of Sean L Brereton. Sean is a christian author that writes about relationships, dating, and preparing yourself for marriage. His background makes him an ideal person to have in the trenches. Sean talks to us about how one really bad break up lead him to write one of his books. He discusses how he began backsliding when it came to courting. He also explains how he recovered from that situation in order to prepare for his engagement & soon to be marriage.

You can find Sean here:

instagram: @seanlbrereton and @whateverywomanneedstoknow.

facebook : facebook.com/SeanLBrereton and facebook.com/WhatEveryWomanNeedstoKnow

Books:  www.slbbooks.bigcartel.com

The Toulons welcome Jamie, Ashley and Olivia into the Trenches with them this week. The three women kept it real and didn't hold anything back. The ladies gave their perspective on growth from past relationships, views on marriage and of course sex. 

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Jumping into the trenches with the Toulons this week with the owner of "HerPleasure" Shop, an online sex toy line, Mrs. Iyana M. Mrs. Iyana is letting the men and especially the women know that its okay to brings toys into the bedroom. She enlightens us on some of the sex toys in her line, good ways to approach bringing toys into the bedroom and also shares her personal experiences with sex toys. Married or single, at the end of the day, you need to be satisfied! If you aren't comfortable telling your partner or spouse what you want/need, then what are you doing with them??

You can check out herpleasure at:

Instagram - @herpleasureshop

Website - https://herpleasureshop.myshopify.com