What happens when the faith you grew up around finally becomes your own?
In this episode of In the Woods, Pete and Sarah sit down with Lilly Gordon and Gavin following their baptisms at Woodland’s Lake Baptism. Their stories come from very different starting points. Lilly grew up in a Christian home and around the church, while Gavin grew up largely outside of Christianity and once thought Christians were a little crazy.
But God was working in both of their lives.
Lilly shares honestly about growing up believing in Jesus while becoming increasingly indifferent toward her faith. Even attending a Christian university did not immediately change that. In fact, for a season, it caused her to push back even more.
Gavin shares his journey from skepticism to faith, including the friends, mentors, conversations, research, and relationships God used to draw him toward Jesus. Together, Lilly and Gavin talk about a difficult season when they ended their relationship and began pursuing Christ separately before eventually finding their way back to one another with a completely different foundation.
Their story leads to an important conversation for parents: What do you do when your child seems indifferent toward Jesus?
Lilly reflects on how her parents continued pointing her toward truth without trying to force faith upon her. Their consistent example, prayer, and willingness to trust God eventually became part of what God used to draw her back to Him.
The conversation also explores:
• Why baptism should be a personal declaration rather than something done because of pressure
• The difference between believing in Jesus and actually following Him
• What it means for your faith to become your own
• How God can use relationships and mentors to draw someone toward Christ
• The power of parents faithfully praying for their children
• Why forcing Christianity can sometimes create resistance
• Moving from rules and “dos and don’ts” to genuinely wanting to please God
• Learning to recognize the work of the Holy Spirit
• Why questioning and investigating Christianity can actually strengthen faith
• How God can use your own story to reach someone else
Whether you grew up in church, came to Jesus later, or you're a parent praying for a son or daughter who seems far from God, this conversation is a reminder that God is still working, even when you can't see it yet.
Lilly and Gavin’s stories remind us that Jesus is not simply something we inherit from our families. Ultimately, each of us must respond personally to His call, follow Him, and allow Him to transform our lives.