Part of parenting is protecting our kid(s) and sometimes this looks like providing them with information that makes us uncomfortable because it’s horrible and unpleasant.

So how do we give them important information when it’s horrible and unpleasant?

How do keep their view of the world intact whilst simultaneously alerting them to the horrors that are also present?

In today’s episode I’m answering a question about child sexual abuse.

More specifically, how to tell your young kid about it so you can help protect them.

There are a range of skills that you’re being called to access here, and if you don’t have them please don’t beat yourself up.

This is not something that is taught. There’s no “How to be a parent” guide or a handbook that helps us to ‘get it 100% right’.

There are 3 things I’m sharing that I hope will help you in having this convo.

I’m also sharing 7 books to support you as well, because let’s face it even if we’re speaking our kid’s language there are so many different ways we can say something so we all want to do our best in this respect.

Another key element to consider before having this convo is where you stand.

What beliefs do you have about kids who experience sexual abuse?

Have you had an experience (directly or indirectly) that you haven’t dealt with?

This is such a complex and layered topic so go easy on yourself when approaching it.

I really hope these resources and this episode helps you in maintaining your kid(s) innocence whilst giving them the info they need to stay safe in this world.

Until next episode,

x Sarah