Episode Overview: In this heartfelt episode, Stephanie Moorman addresses one of the heaviest burdens many grieving mothers carry—guilt after the loss of a child. Drawing from her own personal journey after losing her infant son Jax, Stephanie discusses the nature of guilt, how it manifests in grief, and why it is important to address it with honesty and faith. She guides listeners through acknowledging these feelings, reframing their thoughts with God’s truth, and moving toward healing and peace.
Understanding Guilt in Grief:
Stephanie explores the many forms of guilt following child loss—whether rooted in reality or imagined—and how it becomes a persistent voice of self-condemnation.
She shares her own struggles with guilt after the passing of her son Jax, specifically recalling the decision to leave his side for one night and the regret that followed.
The Enemy’s Role in False Guilt:
Stephanie reminds listeners that, as Christians, the enemy (Satan) uses guilt as a weapon to isolate and torment, especially after such a vulnerable loss.
Practical Steps to Address Guilt:
Acknowledge your feelings honestly and talk to God about them.
Receive forgiveness—reminding yourself that you could not have changed God’s plan.
Receive forgiveness—reminding yourself that you could not have changed God’s plan.
Replace lies and shame with biblical truth; recite scripture and speak grace over yourself.
Stephanie shares powerful verses such as Isaiah 61:3 ("He will give them beauty for ashes...") and Psalm 34 ("The Lord is close to the brokenhearted...") to encourage listeners and remind them of God’s presence in their grief.
Journaling and Community:
She suggests journaling as a healing tool, encourages pouring your heart out to God, and invites listeners to join her new Facebook community for support and conversation.
“Guilt, real or imagined, is the inner voice that haunts us when we try to sleep or when we catch ourselves laughing again.”
“Guilt delays our healing because you don’t feel like you deserve peace. Guilt creates isolation and shame. We blame ourselves when God is ultimately in control.”
“Declare to yourself: God is exchanging my sorrow for beauty, my grief for joy.”
You are not alone in your grief journey; guilt is a common struggle after loss, but it does not have to define you.
Address guilt honestly and replace negative self-talk with God’s truth.
Reach out for support, whether through journaling, prayer, or joining a nurturing community.
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Join the Community: Check out the link in the episode description to join Stephanie’s new Facebook group designed for women who are healing and growing together.
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Until next time—stand firm and stay rooted in God's Word.
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