In this episode Hale and I have a gender reveal party for ourselves, à la Akilah Green's tweet on the topic. (See it @akilahgreen, Sep 7, 2020.) We liken gender to the color spectrum, and talk about gendered roles we plan not to pass on to our children. We delve into yard work, kitchen work, clothing choices, dating and the power dynamics therein; then how these things differ across gender and culture.